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Depressed
Lately i have been feeling very depressed because my boy friend has been at camp for a while and i really miss him n i alwayz think of negative things that that could be goin on or that he could be doin at camp see'in that its in maine n we live in berkley, mass so im alwayz talkin bout how much i miss em n cryin but im tryin not to think bout the negative things im tryna think positive things like he misses me as much as i miss him n he is alwayz thinkin bout me n like he is stayin away from otha girls n stuff but im tryna figure out ways to get the negatives off my mind n kno that my boy friend is not foolin round i mean i have been wid him for like a lil more then 9months n he has neva like screwed up in that way but im juss worried cuz he iz far from home n stuff so help me plz!!!!!
.*.>> a cry for help <<.*.
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o my sweetie..well like i told someone else listen to ur heart and not ur head ur brain will make u think things that arent actully happening..trust me ive been there its hard i had listened to my brain and it got to where my bf broke up with me if i had listened to my heart things would still the same me and him would still be together but no i had to be stupid and listen to my brain and not my heart(sorry if i made this a personal)..lol..but good luck and if u need ny more advice hit me up on Uz A HoE8705
*-Tracy-*
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Oh, honey. I know EXACTLY how you feel. My boyfriend's in Vegas (Like, all the way across the country) until late August and our nine month is on the 14th.
If he's been with you for this long and hasn't screwed up, he's probably still being good. He probably does miss you as much as you miss him.
I get depressed at night sometimes when we would've been hanging out, and I worry, too, about him finding someone better out there, but then I remember things he's said that reassure me that he would never even look at another girl. He's also told me that girls have attempted to flirt, but he pushes them away.
Just try to think of positive things he's said to you and reassure yourself.
If you need someone to vent to, my screen name's SirenCytherea on AIM.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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Trust is a very big deal in relationships. You need to learn to trust your boyfriend. Let him have his space. You wouldn't want him thinking that you are doing something while he is away would you? Of course not. Just calm down and know that he is being faithful. If he has never given you reason to worry than there is no reason to worry. Everything will be fine, just take it day by day.
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Well..the only thing you can do is hope for the best. Ifhe hasnt messed up in 9 months..he most likey wont do it agian. What you need to do is just do something to take your mind of of him for a while. It might be hard but it can be done. If you trust him then it should be just.
Hope it helped!
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Just try your hardest not to worry, more than likely he isnt messing around with anyone, do something that will get him off your mind keep yourself busy doing something that way you dont have very much time to think about him, it will help a whole lot!
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