My name is Kendall, and I love giving advice. I have two best friends. Jessica and Bridget! I'm 13 and I love animals!
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Hey it's me yet again with yet another problem.
There's this kid who I have strong feelings for, and we were into each other for the longest time. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he's miserable because he cared about her... gurr it makes me so jealous!
He's ignored me for the past month... just all of a sudden stopped liking me. I care about him SOOO much. Should I be mad for his ingoring me like that and going out with someone else... and just avoid him? Or try, now that he's single... to get his attention again???? (link)
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Be mad at him, and that he was going out w/ someone else. Don't let him see your anger,but make sure it's there. You could make a move, but ask him WHY he dumped her. Look interested and MAKE EYE CONTACT
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Okay, i like alot of guys, but i'm told there is someone
out there for me. I wan't things to happen so fast, but that's not right.My question is how do you know when
the right guy for you is possibly the one right in front of you. sincerely, Lacey. (link)
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Hey Lacey,
(it's xKendall10x!!!!) (this is my new 1)
I hate to let you down, but you just need to wait. You will know. I know your anxious to have Mr.Right, but you have to wait, and you're time will come. My guy has already come, and some moment, yours will too.
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Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.
I will rate the first people to give me an answer. (link)
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Yes yes yes! Guys making eye contact mean they like you! Smiling is awesome, because it means he's interested but shy to ask you.
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I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking? (link)
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He might have been joking, because he switches his emotions on and off, but that means that there is a 50% chance that he really does like you too. I would talk to him, and make eye contact, because guys like that.
*Good Luck*
~Browny4541~
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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's! (link)
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Alright, if your boyfriend was saying 'i'll never break up with you,' and 'i love u so much' then he was lying AND telling the truth. He broke up with you because he didn't want you anymore. It dosen't mean that he DIDN'T love you anymore. It means that he DOSEN'T anymore.
*Good Luck*
~Browny4541~
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Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible. (link)
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That's pretty old, but when you get to be like in your 20's it won't matter that much, but I don't know it's your decision.
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ill admit, we had our bad days. Me and will, well we went out a coupl of time over the years. I always ended up being the one to break it off. it never seemed right. Then he asked me back out and this time it was diff. i mean we got along SO MUCH BETTER then we ever did. then on 8th grade graduation night, he dumped me for no reason. he says he is over me and i swore i was over him too. now its like an old flame is being rekindled. he doesnt wanna try again but i think there might be something here we can build on. anyone have any advice for what i should tell him??? please help me if you do!! Love Kels (link)
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If he dosen't want to try again, then he dosen't want to try again. Don't push guys, they don't like it. Don't put them under pressue (unless they're jerks of course) and It's ok. Ask him out, and if he says no, then you'll know the real truth.
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There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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Look at him too. When he catches your eye, blush or wink at him. Instead of you telling him to say, 'hi' YOU say it. I know your shy, and i know its tough, but when you fianlly do it it's not so bad.
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I like one of my friends [who is a qirl by the way] as more than just friends. She knows I'm bi, and we joke all the time about hooking up. She also said that after she gets her first boyfriend that she'll go out with me because she hasn't figured out if she's straight or not. Should I wait for her to make up her mind while she's totally crushing on one of her guy friends, or should I get over her and find someone new? Help please! xox (link)
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Get over her. That's what I would do. Being bi is nasty, so I wouldn't do it. It's hard to find bi's unless you have a bestfriend that is one!
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Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me? (link)
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If he makes eye contact with you then of course he likes you! keep ur hopes up and everything will hopefully turn out fine. Ask HIM out since he's shy, and he'll be grateful because he didn't have to do it. Make him laugh! He'll enjoy it!
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this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high. (link)
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U RATE HIGH?
Age isn't everything! If he thinks it is, forget him! If he actually told you that he didn't like you, then he's probably right. But, boys are known are known to be liers. Find out, then talk to me again.
~Kendall~
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i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!
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Well, you've got a pickle (a problem) But i'd got the cucumber (the answer). Explain to him that you do not want to be his girlfriend. But let him down easy. Things could go bad if he isn't understsnding.
Good Luck,
*Browny4541*
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I dated somebody for a year. She was my first everything: first person I fell in love with, first person I got close to, first person I became intimate with, everything. We broke up in January. I am over the relationship itself, but I am not over her. I think those feelings will be there for a while, there really isnt anything I can do to make them go away. Well, now I'm dating again. Ive been seeing the same girl for the past few weeks now, and things are starting to become a bit more serious. Not very serious, but its becoming more than just dating. Shes even my date to prom, which is in 2 months now. Problem is, the feelings arent anywhere near as intense as it was with my ex girlfriend. I like this new girl, shes totaly great, but I feel like I've become jaded since my breakup, and therefore dont have much to offer her. Any advice on what to do? (link)
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If the 1st girl still likes you, then wait until the prom is over to ask her out again. But if the 2nd girl is more special, then keep going out, and being her bf....
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Hey everyone,
Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female (link)
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I hope your not talking about running away! Don't do that u silly goose! Ask him out, or if he wants to hang out somewhere, be kind and flirt. Or if your not that kind of girl, just be sweet & caring.
Good Luck,
~Kendall!
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