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There's a girl in one of my classes that I like. We always talk and she smiles and laughs a lot. We say hi and talk in the halls all the time.
BUT...sometimes I'll message her on facebook and we don't really talk that much. I also heard her say to another girl she doesn't want a relationship at the moment (she just broke up with her bf not that long ago.) So does she like me? Should I ask her out?
I'm really confused!!!

she could like you. but since she just got out of her last relationship, she could be confused. taking it slowly would be the best for her right now. you can talk about a relationship if this continues for a few more weeks, but dont pressure her into it. if she actually says "i am not ready for another relationship at the moment". take her word for it, dont force her into it.

best of luck! continue making her smile and laugh :) thats always good!

keep me updated!

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I met this guy last weekend at a place where everyone in my town hang out. we hit it off really well and started dating a couple days later. everything was going really great but then i found out from a few friends i have in the grade above that he did ectasy oxy cotton ect. i definetley am not into drugs, i called him and told him i never wanted to see him ever again. he started crying and said i havent cried this much since my mom died of coursr i felt awful so i agreed to have him drive over to my house and we could talk i told him that i thought we rushed into going out and that i couldnt be with somebody who does drugs i want to be a dancer in high school and i cant be associated with drugs. he also told people that we were going to have sex on our one month anniversary. which made me furious because im not like that to know a guy for like 5 days and agree to that. i broke up with him and now hes threatning to kill two of my friends that told me that he did drugs. hes physco..he drives past my house twice a day and it freaks me out he says we will be together no matter what and he'll stop at nothing to get me even if he has to hurt people that we are meant to be together im really scared and i dont know what to do.

I think you should just really call the cops.
Tell them that hes threatening to kill yurr friends, and that he does drugs and its emotionally abusing you. i know, you probably dont want to do that, but tell them! it will help you ALOT! he can get arrested, and thrown into jail, that dirty little scum.

hes probably a rapist, and a pedophile. and thats a serious thing, that scum deserves to be in court.

CALL THE COPS AS SOON AS YOU SEE THIS.

xoxo all the best luck to you!

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okayy i really need advice asap. okay so theres this girl who now goes to my school this year & shes a sweetheart and were friends. Were not like super close but i love her to death. So theres this guy at my school that is just gorgeous & i really like him. We hung out and all that & i really connected with him. Well when i came home i found out that the girl that i'm friends with went out with him for about a year off and on. She was upset with me and cried so muchh. Like she told me she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore cause it hurts her too much and she thinks i don't care about her. i talked to her and all that but she decided not to be friends. When one of my friends get mad at me, like everyone does and i'm so scared of that. I know your gonna say well then their not real friends but idk, just bare with me lol. anyways - Well the guy i like says he really likes me & don't even like his ex girlfriend anymore but shes still head over heels for him. I offered to stop talking to him and shes like NOO i don't wanna make your life shitty, please just get to know him & leave me out of it. I really don't know what to do. When i hung out with him the other dayy, i didn't wanna leave. Hes so cute & sweet and ahh i just like him alott. So what do i do? The girl i was friends with said shed get overr it eventually but i don't want the whole world hateing me because of this. For one its not their business and two, i can't stop who i likee even when i didn't know they datedd. i'm so shooken up over this situation. My best friend is also friends with this girl and i'm so afraid she`ll turn on me after she said she really wouldn't. I'm so scared. And i feel so bad that i did this to the girl but i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him? should i just let her get used to it, or get over it ? Just give me advice on what you would do if you were in my place. thnk you so much.

Wow, this is hard, I think your just going to have to go for it, if you're friends go against you, screw them.. their not true friends! Since you're friend gave you permission to go for it, do it!

xox, i couldnt really help much, ive never been in that situation.

if you need more help, inbox me love

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hey i always am told by people how gorgeous i am but i can never find myself to actually believe it. i mean if im so pretty how come i dont have a boyfriend.

eek. im in the same situation, it sucks =[ but, you just gotta flirt. eek. this sucks, i cant really help with this becasue im in the same situation.

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Would a 14 year old girl and a 17 year old guy workout in a relationship?

If he loves you truly, and you truly love him. then yes.

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I have liked a lot of guys in the past and i like this one guy now, marcus. So, i asked him out earlier which is something i've NEVER done before but i am yet to hear an answer because my mate asked him for me and i haven't be able to speak to her yet. So anyways, why has it been sooo easy for me to just ask him out. I mean, i've never asked out any of the other guys i've liked.

I've liked him for about 1 or 2 weeks and he knows i like him, and we were messing around to today and he said to me ''You fancy me like fuck, don't you?''(see below for what happened*), so at least he knows i really really like him. My friend zoe asked him if he would ever go out with me and he was like ''erm... erm.... erm... maybe''.

It was sports day today and me and my mates were writting stuff on each others arms and he write something on my arm and then i said lemme draw someone on ur arm and while i was writting it he said to me ''you fancy me like fuck dont you*'', i just smiled and walked away then he came up to me and write on my arm ''so wana go...'' then he crossed it out.


WHY was it so easy for me to ask him out?!?

becuase you feel comfortable around him,
and thats a good thing :]

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alright im going to sum up my night and my gf's night, tell me if i did the right thing.

my night:
got stoned with 3 guy friends of mine, had a complete and utter blast, made cupcakes, brownies, played games, watched movies. harmless fun.

my gf's night:
got completely shitfaced with some 3 of her girlfriends, 1 of my other guy friends, and another guy who i dont like. they went skinny dipping, she claims to have covered up and stayed at the opposite end of the pool as the other girls.

how it went down, she called me today told me about her night after i told her about mine, she threw in skinny dipping as if it were no big deal, i then proceeded to tell her that if she did that, then she wouldnt mind if i went skinny dipping with a bunch of girls while she wasn't there. she then said oh but it was only two guys, i then told her that i still dont like the one guy (he grabs her and touches her and is a complete ass to me, so we're in a conflict right now) and that she went skinny dipping with him while they were completely shitfaced, she then tried to blame the alcohol, i asked her who consumed it, and she said that she did (duh), and i asked her whose fault it was.

i hung up and told her i'd talk to her later, due to the fact i dont know what to say.

help me out with what to say when i call her back.

thanks.

i think its okay to be pissed.
i mean i would be too.
she cant blame alcohol.
she would know she was doing something wrong.
seriously.
just ask her why she did it.
if she says the alcohol say no thats not it and ask her friends if she was drunk and stuff.

i hope i helped ♥

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my bad for talkin like that, i didnt read the thing saying talk proper english.
but anyway, i really dont know if he wants the relationship to be secret he didnt say anthing about it. im just sayin should he be mad?
and i wasn't tell more and more people

alright, well if he wants the relationship to be secret, it will leak out.

and i dont think he should be mad, unless if he asked you out and told you not to tell anyone.

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kay i am freaking out because i am about to go kiss the guy that i like and i was wondering if anyone new anything that might help callm me doown. i have tried breathin but its not working very well. My Hands ARE SHAKING!!!1PLEEZE HELP!

deep breaths.
thats all.
and nice breath too.

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17/f

ive never had a bf and ive never had my 1st kiss. how do i get guys to like me or start to flirt with them without it been too obvious?
my best mate has a bf and every time she goes on about that she hasnt seen/spoke to him in a while it makes me feel low..how do i stop this from happening without her noticing im upset? x

well, you cant get guys to like you, unless if you change yourself.. which is a low thing to do.

to flirt with a guy, keep looking at him, maybe hell get a drift that you like him. And if you guys talk already, maybe like flip your hair when you talk to him..

And tell him that you guys are best friends and you will always be there for him.

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now wat if dis dude asked you out rite? and so, you said yea, and den you told one of ya friends, and she told lyk 5 otha dudes who'll proly tell sum more ppl, and now you THINK dat if he f0und out dat sum people kn0 den h3'll get mad. wat would you d0?

well first, when you are asking a question you should type in english, it was actually hard for me to understand this.

ill just say this in your language.


omg so tiz boi must be embarrassed dat he liks u. like omg lol so you shouldn't really tell pppl and more pppl that you are, because what if he was really kidding about askin you out??

in english.

he is embarrassed that he likes you if he doesn't want people to know, and that if he is, you shouldn't really tell people. If you don't like that your relationship will be taken secretly, don't go out with him. it's impossible to keep a relationship secret. trust me, my friend tried to, and she tried to keep it secret. just by them talking in the hall and walking to class together, people found out

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