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My Name is Megan. I live in a small town in Ohio! I am 13/f 5'3 and 120 pounds. I have a twin and an older and younger sisters. I was a cheerleader for 7th grade and i am now an 8th grade cheerleader. If any of you guys need help i am good with all around about any thing, love life, family,entertainment, sports, and if i dont know it i will research it to the best of my knowledge into finding it out. I am no expert but i do know a thing or two about life. I will be more than welcome to help you..Thanks


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♥ -Xo-Meg-oX- ♥
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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

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Okay, At This age i have learned that some 15 year olds are well thinking deeper into a relationship that isnt realy the best think though. I am 13 years old and my boyfriend is 15 and i will be going out with my boyfriend for 8 months on July 3rd. I dont do anything with him because were not going to take any chances with that. My cousin got pregnate at the age you are at now. She got an obbortion becuase she didnt want it. She called it "It" and "thing" she would acualy talk to it and say it was stupid and see what your doing your makin me sick it! Stuff like that. If you are 15 and you get pregnate it will ruin your reputation and if you keep it? There goes any plans of a future. When my cousin got pregnate she lost alot of peoples trust and she lost me who looked up to her so greatly. i say take it slow and its great that you dont want to! n Wait till your old enough to fend for a baby or a sickness because sometimes babys are not born "Perfect" and what hapes you get std? and Die from it? Is it worse the chance, just for pure pleasure? As you can tell i am realy saying dont and wait. But I dont own or run your life. Please think about it. And if you do use propor "equipment"!!!!]



Lotz Of Luv...
Meg


P.S. I think its GREAT that you dont want to!


last nite i was on the phone w/ my x crying. today he started sayng all of these mean things so me when i just asked him a REALLY SIMPLE question. hes like "yur not worth the pain" on his away message! i hate this!!! y??? (link)
Maybe hes falling for you but you hurt him before and he refusses to go through the pain again? Be nicer to hom, dont cry with him kinda flirt to make him understand that your not going to hurt him and if your not plaining on trying to go back out with him then be friends b/cause i HATE when couples go from loving eachother and saying i love you and stuff to hating them and talking about them ruidly and behind there backs!!!!



Good-Luck!


me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do

is he into me? (link)
awwww omg thats sooo sweet! Hes totaly into you, This is the man of your dreams girl!


what age should you try to get a girl in bed (link)
When your old enought to have a child. Old enough to have a wife. And Old enough to have a job. Also to be responable and WANT protected sex. Thats when.


okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me? (link)
OMG TELL YOUR PARENTS.Then have your mommy call his mommy and have his mommy tell him so his mommy can kill him if your daddy doesnt first becuas since your a goodygood *cough* he will think your Xboyfriend presured you!


Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f (link)
MOVE ON! If he did it once who says he wont do it again!? He willl probaly think its okay if he does it since you went back out with him
MOVE ON WOMEN YOU CAN FIND BETTER!HHHH


I need some jokes to tell on a date with agirl. Anyone know any good jokes? NO SMUTTY ONES.
---Montrealfan (link)
Since you sound like a guy who likes jokes here a "goood one" i wouldnt tell your girl friend this one though



Once apon a time a prince asked a princess to marry him.
Sadly the Princess said no
And the Prince lived happily ever after


at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more?? (link)
to be honest. I think hew as just pulling you closer to touch your boobs but he may just trying to show affection... see if anything similer happens that leads to my thoughts..

--Welcome--


A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions? (link)
6 hours... Shopping, maybe vist family!!! Or go to the longest movie away and the farther the better! Maybe go on a walk through the park... Amusement Park? that would work go to a nice one an hour away or so! lol go for it your a great friend!!!!


-Love, Meg-


hey (im a 14 yr. old girl)
i think i like my best guy friend who i've know since i was 3. the complicated thing is that im a twin and he used to like her. how do i know if he likes me or my identicle twin? (link)
god i hate having a twin in this sitch. I have a ferternal twin but i still get the consept. Guys hang out at our house or/and school and its hard because you dont know which one of us hes trying to impress .. just kinda try to spend somtime with out your twin with him, or ask him a couple questions to help you some, its hard but heck go for it

13/f talk to me in my InBox for any twin questions i love to write to those dnot get them too often


So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks! (link)
When your dancing with him look into his eyes and smile:-D Flirt in genral too, tell him he looks handsom


im 14..and i've never had a boyfriend and all my friends have one right now and i dont and i feel left out and i just want someone to like me. i know im a little young but i never met a person in my grade or 7th grade accually who hasn't had a boyfriend or at least danced with a guy/girl please help and why is it taking to long for a guy to ask me out!? -i rate high (link)
I had my first boyfriend 6 months ago and were still going out wich is pretty but the last quarter of the school year and im in 7th grade and there nothing wrong dont worry about it.. live life the way you want i also had my first dance with my boyfriend like 5 months ago.


-Xo-Meg-oX-

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I met Mary, 20 years old, about 10 months ago. We hit off and started dating. It’s been about 7 months now. Her family life is a complete mess. Her parents divorced a little over a year ago. Now, her mom hardly returns her calls and her dad quickly got re-married and now lives about 2 1/2 hours north of her. With his new life he rarely makes time for her either.

After dating for about 4 months, she visited her doctor. Her stomach was bothering her. The doctor discovered a cyst. She had tests done and that day she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer – stage one.

She refused to have a hysterectomy and started chemotherapy. After 3 weeks of chemo, its stage 3. The doctor tells her it’s terminal. She tells her dad. He asks her not tell anyone on his side of the family. Meanwhile, he never calls her to ask how she’s doing. As far as her mom goes – she hasn’t told her yet.

Three weeks ago, Mary’s doctor said she needed to stop chemo because her organs were swelling as a result of her diabetes. At this point the cancer had stopped spreading. Last week she blew off her doctor’s appointment because she needed to work to make rent. She was scheduled to restart chemo. Mary works full-time on her feet. She smokes and has a glass of wine now and then. None of which her doctor agrees with. So as a result, the cancer has started to spread again.

Watching her suffer has taken a lot out of me. More than half the week she sleeps at my apartment. And on cue in the evening her pains skyrocket. Lying in bed she twists and shakes until she passes out. All I can do is hold her. She wakes up and the pain goes another round or two until she finally falls asleep.

I don’t agree with how she’s handling her sickness. Missing doctor appointments, smoking, and drinking. Just the other day she was planning to go to the beach with friends. I told her she’s not suppose to go in the sun while on chemo; that’s when I found out she missed her doctors appointment earlier that day.

I want to be there for her, but as a friend. I do all I can so that she feels like a beautiful woman. But I might just have to just walk away. I feel like I need to do something to get her to take this illness more seriously. I’m frustrated.

What do you think?
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Wow, Thats not only heart breaking but a scary thing to think about. Have you tryed talking to her? Maybe you should tell her how much you want her to stop smoking and drinking and offer to take her to appointments and if she cant pay rent maybe she cn stay with you so you can watch her and make sure shes okay... Maybe if you would like you guys could even have seprate beds so her twists and shakes dont bother your sleeping, Also Why dont you go, I love you soo much nd it would hurt so much to loose so please if any one for me, and stuff and if she gets better maybe you and her could go vist her family? or maybe if you dont think she will get too angry call her mom so she can discuss the twhole thing with her.. Im kinda young according to your age so you might want someones older opoion..



13/f
--Good-Luck--


My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby! (link)
Honestly i think having an obortion is wrong but this might be best for her. 13 year olds cant tkae of them selves and it will not only destroy her repuation but her future if she has the baby. If she can put it up for addoption thats ok but i realy wouldnt let her have it, it would be hard on the body and isnt it a higher risk of 13 year olds dying by trying to deliver a baby? Please dont let her keep it it will destroy any dream she has....
.:*Meg*:.

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go to this. omg its soo wrong.it shows abortion.. dont get one inless its last thing


is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
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Well, It depends if hes a realy bad singer or not sorda..
Yes because usaly a guy will sing it right to you or give you the papper,
But you must think it takes alot of guts to sing a song to a girl that you realy like expecaly if you can sing, and he took the time to write it i say if your thinking if you should go out with him or not GO FOR IT!


ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop? (link)
Tell Them to Stop Then beat the living *beeeeep* out of them if they dont!!1 :-D WORKS FOR ME!! Or if they give you a smart comment like "I like it" or "she has a nice butt"

-Xo-BaByGiRl-oX-


Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them (link)
Ignoring us? No. Flirt, try to be friends;-)




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