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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?

14/f

yea you should just kind of lead him on like get really close and lean in but dont do nething... and if that doesnt help you should make the first move!! but yea im jus like you i prefer not to make the first move but sumtyms a lil change is gud.... hope i helped!

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What should i do if my boyfriend says that other girls are hot in front of my face and makes me feel like crap haha, thanx :)

you should def. tell him cuz thats obviously not right... just tell him how you feel and see how things go! hope i helped!! =]

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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy?

trust me everyones like that with their bf like in the beginning of the relationship... you'll loosen up over time!! x0xo

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

i dnt think most guys mind just as long as ther gettin kissed [haha!!] but yea if u do use lip gloss its jus gettin end up commin off ;) but yea it myt make it sticky tho so its really all up to u! hope i helped!! x0xo

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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

dats really cute a 2 yr relationship its hard to find nowadays!!! neways first i think u need to tell ur rents bout ur relationship trust me i think they'll b fyn with it cuz they went through da same things wen they were growing up. going to 2 diff. skools is definitely hard and it can b a challenge but if u guys really do love each other u guys can make it work.... x0xo

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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?

yea i kno how u feel the same thing kinda happened to me.... neways the thing is if he truly loved you y did he cheat on you??!! so although ur heart is telling you that you should get back together with him maybe right now is not the best time... wait awhile and see how things play out! hope i helped... x0xo!!!

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my ex-boyfriend, i still really like him..i would do anything for him..i invite him over everyonce in a while, and he invited me over to his house to watch a movie witch was really cool :) lol...and he always trys to make me laugh which i really really like, and my two friends think its so obvious that he likes me......? im not so sure of that, i wish he liked me...he knows that i like him...and i am too scared that if i ask him out he would regect me..what should i do?

u should prolly jus try to find out more bout how he feels but to me i think he still feelin u and still cares bout u so im sure it will all work out great. hope i helped =] x0xo

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I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable.

if ur afraid of gettin hurt then maybe u should try being single for awhile and c wut happens maybe being taken isnt the ryt way to go for u ryt now. hope i helped =] x0xo

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my bf.. is scared to do more than make out n so am i...like idk how far to go...neither does he...what can i do to make us both seem comfortable ..yet happy.. and still be going out lol ( cuz i dont wana mess up n stuff) just over sum move
and do guys mke the moves or do girls??

-- thanks

--- idiot on the loose

I think that two of you should do what makes both of you comfortable which doesn't mean that you have to do more than make out. Maybe holding hands and cuddling would also do for you guys but again don't do anything "extreme" just to fit in with the rest of the couples out there. and as for amking the moves (i honestly prefer the guy making the moves) but it doesn't matter it's all the same. But whatever the two of you decide to do just be careful.

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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and now were goin to highschool... the only porblem is, hes going to a different one and im really woried that he might find someone else...we really love eachother and i dunno what to do or think. What do i do?

I think you should first of all see what happens over the summer like see if your love for each other actually grows because if it does then the two of you should be able to make it through high school. If the two of you really love each other then you guys WILL make it work but it's definitely going to be hard -- there's going to be a lot of ups and downs but you guys can make it work.

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i don't know what 2 say 2 brad...how can i confront him?! I think of him everytime the song "Pieces of Me" plays becuz i am comfortable around him....and i love him and i want 2 b able 2....write

awww thats really cute but u need to take it slowly and find out if he really does have feelings for you and then the both of you can take it frm ther!

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i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz!

you def. need to get over him... maybe u should just try talking to him and see what happens if ne sparks come up again then maybe the both of u should give it one more try

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hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do

its things like these that i guess you have to think about wuts more important and the guy you like kinda sounds like one of those guys that look really gud and is very sweet but thers still a little part of him thats kinda "screwed"!!! tell ur friend and maybe sumhow the both of u can help each other get over him! :-P

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I met this guy at a lacrosse camp.. I thought he was really cool and everything and we were flirting and he asked me out and of course I said yes.. after that week I haven't seen him but ive talked him on the phone.. hes a total Jock and always plays sports.. sometimes i think he likes his sports better than me.. I really like him and I know he likes me too but I want to see him.. is that being selfish? should I explain it all to him?

No its not selfish and you should tell him that you want to see him and maybe you guys could go out on a date and during the date explain to him how you feel bout the sports thing cuz after all sports is always going to b there... but your not always going to b there and hopefully he'll realize that.

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okay me n my boyfriend have been together since .. november 13 andhe went to this party tonight and the last party he went to he let a girl flash him and stuff so should i be worried if he sed he was sorry ??

if he said sorry and meant it... you guys should b fyn. but just be on the look out i guess you could say! =)

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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

before you kiss him again... tell him about your feelings toward him.

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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

Well you do waht you wanna do... don't follow the crowd cuz thats gonna lead you no where! But I think you should come to realize that you've become a beatufil teen and things like having a boyfriend go through everyones mind but yea do what makes you happy. =)

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my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too?

yes tell them for sure cuz if you don't they may start gettin all jealous and upset that you didn't tell them sooner about your feelings towards the guy.

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ok im going out with this guy that i was TOTALLY in love with for a while i digged him so much and i was completly HEAD OVER HEELS for him but now i just dont like him anymore...we never talk and its not working out. its so hard though because hes been my BEST friend since 5th grade and now im in 9th im SO scared if i break up with him itll ruin our friendship thats so strong...what should i do?!?1 :(

Tell him how you feel after all u cant b in a relationship with a guy you don't like anymore... jus tell him the truth and I'm sure he'll understand and you'll come to realize that the both of you were just meant to be friends.

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is it possible to snog without tongues? just using your lips? if so, how?

lol yes it is... just without the tongue (lol keep your tongue to yourself!) ;)

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