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Im Danielle and I smile alot (:
Im very happy and satisfied with my life.
I have my nose pierced. I enjoy having fun. I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. I believe in love at first site. I always try and make the best of a bad situation. I have a hard time trusting people. I get taken advantage of alot. People screw me over alot. I dont have a " best friend" My best friend is my brother. Im the type of person who doesn't have a good friend, but who is friends with everyone. But I do believe I'm a good friend. Im very well rounded, and I am friends with all types of people. I don't like sterotypes, and I don't consider myself as a "label" Im starting to learn to brush off peoples thoughts of me. At times I'm shy. Im sensative. I take everything to heart. I like to write. Chances are if I know you, I like you. Sometimes peoples oppinions change my own. Im very forgiving, epecially when I shouldn't be. I don't judge people by first impressions. When I'm set on something, I'm determined to make it happen. I won't give up until it does. I'm very trustful, and I don't tell secrets. Just my own. I have very strong self-control, and If I don't want to do something I won't do it. Im a strong person, but I can be weak. I guess depending on the situation. Im a nice person, and I care more about other people than myself. There isn't much more to say

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Well Danielle, I've been seeing this gurl for about a week and i rele like her...shes AMAZING..everytime i talk to her i get butterflies..and everytime we hang out its amazing. Theres only one flaw that she has...SMOKING(cigarettes)..i'm around them all my life but theres no reason to have another person smoke around me..i mean that my life has already been shortened by ALOT cause of my parents and i don't like that she smokess..but no matter what she does i still like her alot..shes my best friends, shes my everything, and i wouldn't be as happy as i was without her..


Oh Yeah, It's You Babay =) ...

Love you.. hehe..

i love you :) if you realy don`t want me to smoke then i can TRY to stop. but i`m going to need all your help. because i can`t do it on my own. when i`m around you, i won`t do it. theres a start. omg. you mean so much to me baby. i can`t believe it has only been a week, and i`m felling like this.

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Alright, here is my situation. There is this girl that I like. And We have never meat in person. She knows i like her and she likes me 2 i think. SHe tells me she does but doesnt act like it. We were suppose to hang out but she ended up just ditching me.. Do i wait for her or do i just give up?

laugh out loud :] maybe she don`t know how to show her feelings. or maybe, she is scared. i really don`t think she intended to ditch you. she could have had other plans. i know when it comes to friends, they are always first before ANY guy. you haven`t met in person, then i doubt there is to much on her mind about you. i mean, she couldn`t like you that much. && i`m not going to say "follow your heart" cuz sometimes, you can`t tell what it tells you and that`s even wear this kind of questions come from. so ask yourself the questions again and think about the following:



1) do i wait ? and she not ever actually tell me how she fells about me && i waste my time on her when i could be out with other girls.


2) should i give up? maybe she won`t tell me how she feels and maybe she will. if she does end up telling you and you give up. are you willing to try it out? or is it to late.


all these questions, can`t really be answered from a person that just has an advice column. they must be answered with your feelings about this young lady. so take your time with her, she`ll open up her feelings very soon.

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Today, the classroom slut found out that i like this guy and now she is all over him. What do u think i should do?

welll act like you don`t care about her. && let him know how you feel. if he tells you that he likes her, then let it be. if he wants a slutty bitch then let him have it. but laugh in his face when he gets aids. Chances are he will just use her, until he gets what he wants. don`t pay no attention to her. and when you are around her and him at the same time. YOU should get all eyes on you and start a conversation with a friend && start laughing. make it seem intresting. and then maybe after, you should walk up to him ( if he is talking to her or not ) and start a conversation with him. just a simple one like "hey there mister, how are you" or "hey whats your weekend plans"

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ok so me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship expect we fight. over stupid stuff. were both really protective of eachother and i dont alow him to go to this kids house b/c hes a real bad influnce but i let him go 2 other ppls houses. r relationships not really bad but what could help to get things back up and running

maybe you need space. it`s good that you && your boyfriend do alot together and have a good relationship but at times you should try to sit down alone by yourself. and give your some time to think about your life, and what you wanna do.

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are beyonce and jay z broken up?

yes. for while now.

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Yeah I have..but its always one liners..i havent had a full conversation with her since my friend told her i liked her :(

welll then.... i would say build up your confidence. and try to have a converstation with her. the most she can do is walk away, or ignore you. and maybe then you will get the hint that she don`t wanna talk to you. having someone tell you how they feel, or just expressions, is better then sitting around waiting for them to make their move. trust me i have been in the situation. and i wish i would have talked to him and asked him how he felt, so i could move on with my life. you need to have confidence in yourself. and i`m sure your not a not a badd person so she shouldn`t ignore you. try maybe, getting her sn or something, and talking on there first. maybe it would lead into more, and she can realize what a great person you are.

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how much do i have to pay u to have sex with you???

uhmmm excuse me :/

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hey, you told me in my question that "i have feeling this lil lady is playing hard to get. " why do you think so??

because... it seemes that she likes you, but has a hard time showing it. sorry i didn`t make it clear the first time. have you talked to her @ all lately ?

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i sit next to a really cute guy in math, and we never do anything productive in that class. meaning that for the whole class period everyone just talks to each other. i sit next to this cute guy who often starts really short conversations, but they're only short because i can't keep them going. (oh and he's not interested. he is friendly to EVERYONE. it's his personality) how do i think of witty things to say on the spot? usually he turns around and talks to other people because they seem to be able to carry on a conversation.

ask him what he is into, like sports, and hobbies. talk about the weekend. and what him && his friends do when they hang out.

just casual talking. but don`t bring up any ex`s.

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Well, there's this guy named Patrick. The way that we meet was that he was in one of my classes. We exchanged screen names, then we exchanged numbers, ect. So we've known each other for almost a year [I transferred schools] and you could say that we're pretty good friends. So, after about 6 months, I realized that I started liking him, as in a boyfriend. I suggested the idea of us going out but he said that he preferred for us to stay friends. At school, he appears as the 'class clown' who never takes anything seriously and always comes up with the best remarks; but I know that there is more to him because I know that he can get 'personal' you know what I mean? Anyway, we just stayed friends, so now, his teasing is going a little farther. He asked me out around April.. 10th I would say? And we 'went out' for 17 hours. Yes, 17 hours. I dumped him because he said that he was going out with someone else which later on I found out was a lie. Then, around May 11th, he made a mean comment on my picture on Myspace and said that it was the worst picture that he's ever seen. However, one of my other guys friends who lives in Toledo, commented and said that it was hot. I'm guessing that Patrick got a little jealous, but I'm not really sure. Anyways, Now, it is mid-May, and I've decided that all of my feelings are dropped for him. I realized that he's low, mean, and inconsiderate. He gave me various nicknames like Seabiscuit (don't ask) and Tito. He's got all of his friends calling me Tito now. (I don't know where Tito came from..) Whenever I get mad at him, he goes 'I love you'. And when we were talking on the phone, he said something that I didn't believe and I said 'My Ass', and he said'..is enjoyable.' Does he like my ass, lol? Anyways, I'm confused. Does he like me, or does he just enjoy pissing me off?

it seems that this guy has a weird way of showing his feelings for you.

sit down and talk to him about it. make him get seriuos. let him know that you wanna know how he really feels. but don`t do it over the phone or computer, do it in person.[ i get this question alot, and i told them this, and it worked]

but maybe he thinks that, when he says those mean things about you, you like it. or he is a badd boy. most boys know that girls love badd boys. lol. im sure he isn`t trying to piss you off.

P.S yes, i think he likes your ass. lol

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My best friend and I like the same guy. What do I do? I dont want to be a bad friend but I also really like the guy. She doesnt know that I like him but I think it is pretty obvious.

let her know that you like him as well. and let him know that too. but you should never let a guy come between a friendship. guys come and go, friends are there through thick and thin. maybe the guy likes you more then her ( or vise versa )but you shouldn`t put this among yourslef. and make him like you more. let him choose, its less weight on the shoulders. and if it turns out he likes her, then be happy for them two. there are others out there hun

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wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help

Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..

i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P

she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane

girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl

thanks for reading

ohkay well... i know you may seemed nevous and didn`t really know how to respond to being in the same room with her BUT making fun of a girl is not a good way of flirting. too some, maybe most it`s a turn-off.

and that`s where you are wrong. girls do care about alot of things. they have feelings just as well as you do.

maybe you should talk to her a little without even thinking about that question. make a friendship with her. that`s the best way to start a relationship.

i have feeling this lil lady is playing hard to get.

but i have a question myself. why is it that you sed on the orginal that you didn`t talk to her and on the additional you sed you talked? i don`t get it.

i think she likes you but don`t know how to show it.

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Ok, so she told me today that she dont wanna be my friend anymore, she didnt tell me y. she said you dont like me cause i like your bf, n i was like..dats nt d reason even tho it was. I mean, im gettin tired of him hanging up on me cuz hes talkin to my best friend or him puttin me on hold jus to talk to her n vice versa...im jus sick of it. Do you think i should break up w/ my bf or stay w/ him?

i would break it up with him:(

he seems to like her more. DUMP HIS AASS.

you seem better then that.

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ok iw as just wandering if you knew some one for a while and you guy were good friends would u fuck him just because he was stilla virgin and wanted to do it, and even though you didnt like him at all??

well... me personally? i wouldn't :/ because i feel that in order for me to have sex with someone, we should have feelings of the same amount for each other. i mean don`t get me wrong or anything, there has been times when i have had sex just to have sex, but yes, i do regret it.

i wouldn`t have sex with a virgin either. i think that he should lose it to someone that he most diff. cares about. he shouldn`t lose it, just to fit in with the crowd, or just because. you only have that chance once, make it last.

" a when a girl has sex just to have sex it`s called a fuck, when a has sex with feelings it`s called making love."

think about that saying. my mom always tells it to me. and i used to be a girl that just fucks. but then i realized that, i need to have respect for myself. haveing respect for yourself makes others have respect for you. try to keep a good name for you. if you don`t being called, a hoe or slut then don`t act like one. k?

a guy is only going to use you until a good girl comes about.

think about all this that i am saying, and then ask yourself the question again. " should i have sex with him even though we share no feelings ?"

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friday will be my 6 month anniversary w/ my boyfriend. we want to do something special to celebrate, but i have no idea what we should do. any opinions?

go to a park and have a little picnic. most people think that it's a little corny but it is a good idea. && make little heart shaped sandwiches. and light little candles. BUT it really depends on if your the romantic couple type, or a laid back.put some of your ideas together and have fun with it.

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theres this guy i really like and hes been flirting with me my friend but i already made out with him and were hanging out this weekend to make out again. what can i do and say until then to make him want me.. like how do i act? i really like him. do i act like a tease if so how?

you cant make him want you. butt you can try, just be sure that you don't try to hard. and when i say you can try, i mean, BE YOURSELF. i'm not going to tell you any of those corny lies, like, go with your heart or anything.but in order for him to want YOU, he needs to understand and respect the real YOU.

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I want to know if when you give head if you like hold ur lips and really how do you do it give me pointers

Ask your lover what he likes, don’t be shy. Guys have different preferences. And remember, good sex and good communication come together. Also, be attentive to his body language.

Use your hands to increase his sensations. You can massage his testicles, pinch his nipples or stroke his anus, while giving him a blow job.If your mouth gets tired, use your hands.If you also use your hands while giving him a blow job, the transition may not even be noticeable.
Be aware of your own sensations. Use the head of his penis as lipstick and feel how soft its skin is.

Use your hands to increase his sensations. You can massage his testicles, pinch his nipples or stroke his anus, while giving him a blow job.
f your mouth gets tired, use your hands. If you also use your hands while giving him a blow job, the transition may not even be noticeable.
Be aware of your own sensations. Use the head of his penis as lipstick and feel how soft its skin is.

If you really want to drive him wild with a blow job, try this: while you're sucking on it, run your tongue around the head at the same time. It also seems to get to them if you lick it and look straight into their eyes at the same time. Try it... you'll see.

A GAME :
While giving him a blowjob, to make him really wild:
a) suck on some ice until your mouth goes numb, then quickly slide his penis deep into your mouth. It really does send shivers down their spine!
b) while his penis is quite far in, gently (VERY gently) just bite the shaft and drag yourself up. It shouldn't hurt

- just makes a change that's all. My boyfriend likes it, anyway.'




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i just had a "lesbian" experiance..... i saw some pictures of girls in yano... n it turned me on i went furthur and masterbating... i was think of both girls && boys but it was the girl tht turned me on most.... am i lesbian?
im only 14
thanks X

your only 14 hun, you can`t find out your sexuality until later in life when you have had messed with both sexs. does that make sense ? and i doubt that you are fully a lesbian. bi-sexual ? maybe.

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ok well im 15/f and my ex bf is 16. WE broke up before my birthday which was april 11th. He called me to wish me a happy birthday and ever since then we have been talking. He asked me what would i say if i we went back out. I told him i would think about it. Well one of his best friends said that lately he has been doing drugs for the past month and stuff. I asked him about it and he said that he does do drugs now and he sells it now too. Well thats just not cool to me but i love him alot i mean hes the one who broke up with me i didnt want to lose him. I dont know wat to do i want to go back out with him but im not sure if thats a good idea?!? i need help thinking of the pros and cons of me going out with him if hes going to do this. Im not sure why he does this i mean he has money he doenst need any im the one that doesnt have hardly any money ever! i just want him to stop doing that shit but he told me that he wasnt and he told me that i shouldnt care because i do that shit too but i dont i told him i dont and i never will. I need HELp! please help me anyone i would like to hear alot of people's opinions and ideas. thanks :]

if you think that him doing drugs is going to effect your relationship with him then i wouldn`t. but if you like him like you say than i would. BUT i he should respect the fact that you don`t like him doing that kind of stuff when you are with him or him doing them @ all. talk to him about, let him know that he can`t have drugs with you. don`t make him choose though, let him do it on his own. does that make sense?

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Ok i am a 15 year old male and ive known this girl for a bout 3 years and she is my nehibor me and her always hang out and she is totally hott and i like her more than ive liked any one beforebut should i tell her and maybe ruine our friendship and if so how should i tell her?

well.... if you are really close to this girl and you wanna take it to the next level with the friendship. then yeah tell her. if you don`t take the risk then you might just regret not saying anything. does that make sense? if she truley respects you and what you feel, as a friend and boyfriend, then it shouldn`t ruin your friendship.

i say if you truley like this girl as much as it seems. then go for it. you only live once.

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