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16/m likes a 14or 15/f advice please
wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help
Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..
i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P
she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane
girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl
thanks for reading
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ohkay well... i know you may seemed nevous and didn`t really know how to respond to being in the same room with her BUT making fun of a girl is not a good way of flirting. too some, maybe most it`s a turn-off.
and that`s where you are wrong. girls do care about alot of things. they have feelings just as well as you do.
maybe you should talk to her a little without even thinking about that question. make a friendship with her. that`s the best way to start a relationship.
i have feeling this lil lady is playing hard to get.
but i have a question myself. why is it that you sed on the orginal that you didn`t talk to her and on the additional you sed you talked? i don`t get it.
i think she likes you but don`t know how to show it.
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Well their is no real way of knowing whats on her mind because i am not her. Girls dont all think the same, some guys actully think that. lol.
sorry im honest, i know it hurts but someone has to say it.
Well she could have liked you in febuary, But guess what your friend messed up, and so did you. You dont make fun of a girl if you like her, you should relaly stop it because she will have no respect for you and she wont like you. No one likes to be made fun of, and she probabaly thinks your just a jerk for making fun of her. How is she supposed to get the hint you like her if your acting like a jerk? Its pretty darn hard.
Be nice to her and SLOWLY go back to flirting with her and talking to her. And after a couple weeks of maybe proving that your not really a jerk ask her how she feels and tell her why you were acting like that. Write a note and leave it in her locker if you are to embarassed to say it to her face, but saying it to her face is actully a better idea and it shows that you have balls. Its better to be try and be regected then to spend your life wishing you had tried and always having a crush on her. At least you would know she has no intrest and you can move on with your life, i know thats not always easy but things get better with time. I promise. If you need anymore help feel free to ask. Hope this helped.
-Amy
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woww deffently a awkward situation:]
but no fear i think i might be able to help ya' out.
Ofcourse i don't know exactly if this girl likes you or not because there is no real way to know unless she tells you herself. But i do happen to be a girl , so therefore i might know a lil' bit.
Mabe she liked you in febuary and then changed her feelings for no reason OR because of what your friend did , which by the way was wrong of him/her. But theres a 80% chance she likes you , she is just as shy and scared to be embarrassed just as much as you are ever think of that? the question is whos going to have the guts to say something first? that i cannot tell you. Since you like this girl so much im thinking you should just simply write a note to her asking her, mabe put it in her locker:] [ girls like that kinda stuff ]. Or if you have real big balls just go up to her and ask her, there is no need to worry. I guaranty that if you dont worry so much about her rejecting you then most likely everything will work out 100% to your satisfaction. If she doesnt like you then you cant spend your time pouting because there is alot more girls out there. You shouldnt look for love, love should come to you. You should go by that because it is true.
hope i helped' :]]
if you need any other advice don't be afraid to ask.
xx kaylaa
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