I'm Kali, I'm 17 and I live in Cincinnati, Ohio. I'm going to be a senior in Highschool, and then hopefully going to University of Cincinnati to major in Business and minor in Theatre. I've been a cheerleader most of my life. You can ask me about mostly anything: Relationships, Fitness, Sex, Beauty, Family, Music, Drugs, School, Religion... those are the topics I'd probably be the most help in.. ask away!
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What would you say is the average age for starting to date, have a boyfriend and makeout???? (link)
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To be honest, (from personal experience) I'd say the average age is around 12-13 for someone to start to have a boyfriend and experiment. That's the kiddie stage though, SERIOUS relationships don't usually start until Highschool.....
Kali
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot (link)
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No, you're not crazy and it's not a ridiculous decision. You're lucky to have found the love of your life at such a young age, or at all, because many people don't. Just follow your heart. Good luck!!!
Kali
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I need advice! Iam a female and 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. My parents did not care about me dating him at first but now all of a sudden my dad wont let me talk to him, and i still love him so what should i do??? (link)
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Still see him, but talk to your dad about it.. and be nice. Maybe he knows something you don't know. You never know, he coulda seen your bf w/ another girl at tha mall or something.. and didnt want to hurt you by telling you. You never know whats going on. Just ask your dad to be honest about tha situation and hopefully it will work itself out..
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Kali
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Well, when someone comes up to me and asks me out, I always say no, whether I like them or not. And if some kid tells me that they like me, I make up some smart-ass comment. I usually do this automatically, giving me no time to think at all. It's just natural reflex. How can I fix this? (link)
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you're either young, immature, or shy when it comes to stuff like that.. or a combination of all three..
just dont do it
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kali
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alright i need to know none of my friends can really sum it up so what are a girlfriends "duites"? I mean it's really starting to get tricky and confusing.
Thanks in advance and I rate 5s! (link)
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a girlfriend should always be there for her man, whenever hes feeling upset she should always try to cheer him up..
i also feel like she should always try to make him feel good about himself, ie: saying he looks good today, and what not..
she should also be fun to be around ..
hope i helped
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Kali
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I have a really hard time talking to boys (except for my guy friend). Whenever guys approach me, my mind just goes...blank. Even if I don't have a crush on him. Like when I'm going to drama there's another guy going down to the chorus room right next door. This guy's named Greg* who has a girlfriend, and it's just really awkward. We're headed in the same direction, and since it's so weird for me, he think I like him when I don't. Then he blocked me on AIM and that junk. Or some guys are just trying to hang out with me, and I just go really weird. Does anyone know what I mean, and what can I do to stop this?
*name has been changed to protect privacy ;-) (link)
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I used to be really shy in middle school, but I kind of got over it when I got to HS. I think what helped me is that over the summer between 8th and 9th grade, I went through a complete change, appearance-wise. Maybe that's not your problem, but I always feel way more confident when I feel like I look good. Just walk on by that Gary kid, act like you don't even notice him there. Walk with your head up high and try to believe that youre hot and any guy would be lucky to have you! =)
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Kali
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I am 15/f
How do you show someone how madly in love you are with them? No matter what I do..he still doesn't believe me. He says he loves me, and I do believe it..but how do I get him to believe me?? Help me please! I will rate!! (link)
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Ohhh.. how much you wanna bet he KNOWS you love him but he just wants to hear you re-enforce it OVER and OVER? "yes i do, i love you, i swear i love you!" lol, thats probably all it is that hes doing..
he just wants to hear u say it
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Kali
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I like my friend, she and I are best friends. She knows that I like her. Sometimes I feel so weird around her, I don't want to be. I am pretty sure nothing will ever happen between us, at least not anytime soon. So, I was wondering if any of you knew of a way that I could stop liking her like that. I'd rather have good friendship then some akward situation. So, if you have the cure, send me it.
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awww.. im sorry, i know thats tough. it would be a lot easier if you started talking to another girl. if your attention is focused on a new girl then slowly but surely your best friend will feel like your best friend again. if there isnt anybody else that you can see yourself wit then try going out with your friends at games, the mall, bowling alley, etc. and maybe youll meet someone. try distancing yourself from your best friend and try to keep yourself busy so that shes not always on your mind.
hope everything works out.. feel free to drop me a message..
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kali
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I live on my own and I'm out of groceries. Tomorrow I have to go shopping, and I never know what to buy. I always end up getting junk food or fattening stuff. Can anyone give me a grocery list that has healthy, sensible foods that I can prepare nutritious meals with? My budget is about 80 dollars. (link)
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Ahh.. I'm a senior in HS and I live with 2 of my friends and between bills and our bad spending habits, we always have to bum money for groceries.. haha..
well heres what we try to get...
*Lean, already cooked, sliced turkey meat. It can be from the deli or pre-packaged. It's still really healthy w/ lots of protein and its like 98% fat free. Not sure bout the price where u live but i think its a few dollars per pound or container.. (sandwiches)
*You can get lean, sliced chicken the same way ^ for about the same price..
*Whole wheat bread
*Veggies (for sandwiches, snacks, or side dishes)- ex: baby carrots, celery, tomatoes, bagged salad mix, lettuce, etc.
*Fruit
*I don't know if u like brocolli, but i always get some brocolli.. break it up into a bowl.. add a couple spoons of water and microwave for a few minutes til its cooked and soft, and then add Low Fat Velveeta Cheese and microwave til its all melted... MMM love it!
*Lean Pockets
*Fish
*Tomato soup and Chicken noodle soup (canned) are both really low in calories..
Hope I helped
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