Question Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 11:39 pm
I like my friend, she and I are best friends. She knows that I like her. Sometimes I feel so weird around her, I don't want to be. I am pretty sure nothing will ever happen between us, at least not anytime soon. So, I was wondering if any of you knew of a way that I could stop liking her like that. I'd rather have good friendship then some akward situation. So, if you have the cure, send me it.
15/m
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Courtney answered Thursday February 9 2006, 10:13 am: Unfortunately, time is your cure that works better and beyond any other cure that others may prescribe you. While you're taking time, you will grow and you will change your thoughts and to you it might seem as if you haven't changed at all. But you will. And while you're taking the time, try going out on dates or courting others. Get in the game. Talk to others and don't ignore the girl that you like already, just be cool. Keep your cool. But try and get a little space. Don't completely separate yourself from her. That would be hurtful and crazy. Trust me, you will one day feel better. And try not to think about it as much as you do. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
B0YgimmeTHATx3 answered Thursday February 9 2006, 5:13 am: awww.. im sorry, i know thats tough. it would be a lot easier if you started talking to another girl. if your attention is focused on a new girl then slowly but surely your best friend will feel like your best friend again. if there isnt anybody else that you can see yourself wit then try going out with your friends at games, the mall, bowling alley, etc. and maybe youll meet someone. try distancing yourself from your best friend and try to keep yourself busy so that shes not always on your mind.
hope everything works out.. feel free to drop me a message..
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