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My name is Kayla!!!
i love to give advice but not alot of ppls no that! so ask me n e thing i dont care i will answer u @ my own cost! say ur name or not u can always leave it annoymus! I love to play sports i am on the basketball team and i was on the softball team and i am goin to be on the track team! I do alot of different things! i do so uch things and sports it isnt funny bt i love givin advie!
o0o ya i suck @ spellin so dont count that!


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I really want to make out with my boyfriend and I already know that he wants to also, but I am self consious of my braces, and I don't know what to do! I know that that sounds pathetic, but I really don't. All of my friends say that I shouldn't be, but i can't help it! How do I get over it and how do I "start" the making out?

my boyfriend of 3months has braces..and trust me you cant tell at all that they have them..i really doesnt make a difference. so just go out there and give it your best.
hope i helped

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alright wellll theres this guyy who ive kind of liked for a while and its been a while alright well it isnt like im in like 5th grade and have a crush on him but since like the end of august ive had a thing for thing i guess and throughout the year its been like maybe he'll like kind of fade away for a while, but like whenever im with another guy or like getting on another guy or whatever all i can think about is him and like its weird because its like i always want the one thing i cant havee sort ahhaa but idk what to do like im just sorta trying to find another guy or whatever but idk if i should just move onnn or i dont know what to do and like ya:-( i jsut nnnnnnneeeeeeed help please! and hes older than me and i cant stop thinking about him whenever i hear a song i think aboutt himm

ok age doesnt matter at all..you sounded like me for the past coupple of years ive known this guy since kindergarded in a differnet city.. we both moved and never saw each other untill we both had a class in 6th grade and both reconized each other names.. Well ive liked him since then im now a freshmen in high school i went out with a coupple of guys but i could never really fall in love with them becasue ive always loved doug. i became friends wiht him in my 8th grade year andwere now going out and were both madly in love ok but what i was trying to say was trying and become friends with this guy and if you start hanging out wiht him and flirting with him he will be bound to start likeing you but you no you hsould at least talk to him even if there is a age gap...

hope this helped

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okay I like this guy and we weren’t really in a relationship but we both liked it each other and we told each other we had feelings for each other and we hung out and everyone thought that he liked me and I thought so too since he even told me and my best friend he also had a cute nickname for me L and then we just stopped talking he hasn’t said anything about me to he’s friends and I know this but I still like him and there’s so many feelings I have for him is that normal that I care that much for him and we were never even together and what should I do? be completely honest!!

Ill rate 5’s!!


L

the guy just probley got sick of seeing you or he just lost feelings for you like this one guy did it me it was horrible but you just got to move on and find someone new that wont do that to you

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So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth?

its a myth.. i have known this guy since kindergarden i went to the same school as him i moved in 1st grade to a hella small town like 45 mins away in 6th grade i was looking back at my pictures and relized that i knew that name nad i tured out it was the same guy..I've been best friends with him since i never thought of him like that untill on of me friends said that we hella flirt nad i said no cuase he is like my brother and i got over that nad now were going out! it is wonderful cause we dont hide anything.

but im now a freshman and i no that it can work or it doesnt but for now it has worked..

Just show her that u wanna be with her and if she says that it would be to weird talk to her about it.

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I have been with my boyfriend for a relatively small length of time, and its his birthday too, but im away on his birthday. Im going to get him a present and i wanted it to be really thoughtfull because im really into him but i have no idea what to get, any ideas for things? I have no pictures of us so picture frames etc are out. Thanks Muchly!

umm i dont really no cuase im stuck in the same problem you have to get a b day present but you dont no what to get him!

try maybe making him a cd of all the songs that remind you of him

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ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*

you cant always go on looks or how hot he is..you have to go by personalty and how he acts..


personal expericence--> this really hot guy asked me out he is really nicen adn everythting but he has the worst attuide and he is like a bad boy I liked him but i told my self that i would never go out with him..the next day i got asked out by this guy that i liked for along time and he wasnt hot but he is really sweet and you can trust him with everything he has had problems but i have deal wiht them and he cares about what i say and listens and he was my best friend so we just got alot closer and we have been goign out for more than a year now
it depends on how you look at it! i cant choose for you but at least you have to ask your self which one the hot bad boy the one that annoys you all the time or the sweet guy that has asked you out befor.you have to chose

Hope this help im not sure if it did or not..

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13/F

I'm in a relationship right now... and we're both kind of expecting our first kiss together, and, well, I need advice! I don't know what to do or anything! and it's driving me nuts!

it comes to trust me i just had my first kiss i no that sounds weird but it comes ok mine was in a airplane comeing pack from paris it wasnt romantic but it was awsome!

It will come just go with it let him lead!

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ok...i realli like this guy...i have b4 but i brushed it off as no biggie...so ne way*z...we r to TOTALLY different ppl....i am kinda preppy....good girl....((even tho i dont act like 1))....all that stuff...but he iz a stoner....ur in that group @ least.....i swore to mi self i never date sum 1 like that....but the thing iz i think he like*z meh 2!....nd i was bout to tell him todai....but i had to have ur advice.....PLEEZ help....

DuNkEr

just go uo to him with a friend that u totly no and would trust ur life on and will give u a shoulder to dry on!( if he says no) sry but ya it does happen!
just go and tell him he will be happy to here and he will think about u so much more than he did! so ya just go and tell him! hell understand!

-kla

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Dear Kayla-

ok welll i like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and i'm well... kinda preppy. The only reason i've really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When i talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized i liked him. I really dont kno if he likes me cuz he's so different from guys i normally like.. and soo different from me. Anyways we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and ya.. he always smilies and waves when he sees me and he is sooooo nice. I mean from what i can tell i barely kno him tho... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now i have no classes with him... i'm really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyways.. i really wanna talk to him and just get to know him better. but there are some problems... i'm pretty outgoing but i can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude...... most of his friends totally hate me.... and most of my friends dont realli kno him (and i wont tell them who he is)..... and i have no classes with him. He still waves to me tho. i need advice on how to like talk to frankie and like realli have a converstaion with him or just play around. i'm pretty creative, but with all the problems i dunno wut 2 do.... and i'm just not very bold when it comes to guys... plz help me find a way to talk to frankie!!!! (PS.. in case it helps, I'm 13)

well if u want to be able to talk to him just do it! i am also 13 and i just finaly got up the nevre to ask this guy that i have lyked sence 6th grade out! you just need some morol spport lyk have a friend go with u! Senci u said that u wont tell neone jsut tell ur bestest friend (that wasnt a word but o0o well)the one that you trust the most and make her promis that she wont tell n e one. Try to do it when he is alone it may be easyer and you never no what he will say and if u jused to talk to him lky in between classes it will be kinda easer. you can always try and skateboard it realy isnt that hard. that can be ur ? you can ask him to help u out with skateboarding. iF you need more help or if it didnt make sence jsut tell me or ask another ? im sry i am just out of it so if it doent make senice sry!
-kayla

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I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other?

candy sports money

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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

move to candna w/out telling here and then call her on the phone or u can do it in a public place

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okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?

bump into him @ one of his sport game!

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h3y i am 14 nd i have only had 1 boyfriend. i dont have the balls to ask ne 1 out...nd i feel like i am not pretty enuf....wut can i do to make me feel beter....or even catch a b.f.

SiNgLe

dont worry u will find someone u nvr no who will come in to ur life untill u look around. Everyone is always pretty. But if u want to u can always go shoppin and buy lots of clothes or u can get a makeover ither way it should help and if u need n e more or more answer im me on aim zsoftballchickax

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