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First off, im sorry this is so long i really need advice thou, and i rate high

My boyfriend and I have been together a LONG time and i love him so much. but sometimes he can be a pain. His best friend (whos a girl) and him are really close. He talks about her all the time, and whenever i ask him questions about if he had to be with someone else who he would be with he says her. They've liked eachother before and they flirt like crazy! They say they dont love eachother but i cant help but worry. also their planning on going to the same college, and my boyfriend and i are really serious and plan to stay together throw college even though we will be attending diffrent schools. and we know we will have breaks but he says he knows he will probably have feelings for her at one time. I broke up with him at one point but i realized how much i love him and shouldnt worry. When i try to talk to him he gets really angry and i dont know what to do. thank you soo much!

hmm... it doesn't sound to me like he likes you all that much. If he doesn't listen to you when you talk to him about things that are bothering you, then I don't know how strong your relationship really is.
As for his best friend, it sounds to me like he likes her.... more than a friend.

If a guy wants to be with you, you shouldn't have to take breaks.

Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.
- Alan Watts

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Ok, so i have this guy friend and we're not close or anything, we're just friends but he always touches me and tries to hook up with me and stuff and it's really obvious that he wants to get with me. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. to be really honest, i have big boobs and I'm pretty sure thats why he wants me so bad. But I'm not sure.... He always puts his hands on my legs (really high) and around my waist and rubs my arms and like puts his arms on my stomachh and pretends like he's about to feel me up, (he thinks i think he's kidding but i know hes serious....) does he like me or not, and what should i do/don't do???

He might like you.. or maybe he's just trying to get in your pants. Maybe if you just flat out ask him if he likes you.... that could work.

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I really want to find the right guy

The right guy will come along at the right time. And when you find him, you will know it.

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
- Carl Jung

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Okay, so I've been hanging out with new people lately, and I like this guy but I don't know how to get him to notice me. He knows I like him, and yeah I guess that's brought us closer. But he's always by this other girl. I've asked many people what to do and they say that he thinks I'm hott, but he's always by her. Please help me get ways for him to come by me and hang out with me instead of her!
13/f

Ask him to hang out with you. Get to know him better. Talk to him more.

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i'm 15 and my last serious bf was when i was in the 7th grade. i'm not shy, i talk a lot, i get along with everyone,i have a good sense of humor, i don't want to sound stuck up but i'm not ugly. my two best friends have bfs one of them has many pimples on her face, my other friend has been know as the ugly duckie. their bfs are really cute. is there something wrong with me, that i can't get a bf? i feel so alone and behind my smile there is a girl depressed that has a problem with self harm, and has no one to talk to, and feels unloved!

Well, no offence, but maybe its because you call your friends ugly duckies and talk about their pimples... its just a thought. But, also.. you really don't need a guy to make you feel happy. I don't think there is anything wrong with you, maybe its just that you need to find a guy you like personaly... start flirting around. For all you know there's a guy out there that likes you! You have no idea... so don't get depressed over it! Be happy and get down wit ur gurrllzzz. lmao!
Hope I helped ;-)
~*ash

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Well, So far alot of guys have turned me down. SO i asked my ex why he broke up with me, and he seyd "well, All the guys say you really need braces so they dont like you" .. i have 2 teeth on the bottom that are slightly crooked, but i cant get my braces on till July, whut do i do?!??!

WHOA! you should never try to change yourself for a guy! never ever ever! If a guy can't like you for you then he's not worth your time. As for what you should "do"... you shouldn't do anything. Just be yourself. You shouldn't ever change yourself for anyone... even if its something as little as your teeth. Don't sweat it for now .. guys are shallow but they'll grow up sooner or later.. trust me!

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ok well my b/f was sapose to come over to my house on fridy and he seemed like he really wanted to come like when i was on the phone with him he was looking up my house on map quest and he was telling my friends that he couldn't wait to come to my house but he also told my best friends thta he was scared..in the hallway i was like when r u comeing over and he go well my parents are goign to my grandpas birthday soo their gonna drop me off then and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party b/c of me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year and ive been waiting all week to come to your house then later he called me and told me that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party so i was like ok and hes liek i really wanted to hang out with you though and was like i promise well do it over break so i was like ok well its his grandpas party...later that night i even drove by his house and there was no lights on but today someone told me that they saw him at a laxcrosse game on the same night..this really doesn't sound like something he would like im soo surprised that he did it b/c we have been going out for a whille and he acts liek he really likes me i dont know what to do please help me!!!1

Well, first of all who know's if he really was at the game... Who know's if this person was lying about it or whatever. And who know's if it was even your boyfriend that they saw there. The best thing to do is just talk to your boyfriend about it without getting all worked up about it. You have to make sure you don't point any fingers or make him feel like your angry at him. If you make it seem like your angry at him then he will think you are trying to blame him for something and everything will turn into a big mess.. trust me.
Well, I hope I was of some assistance
~*ash

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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

He might just be upset about the breakup... just give him a little while before you jump to conclusions...

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