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Q: for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?
Use nair. You put it on for 5-10min then wipe it off . It stinks but it works good and no hair after. You can buy it at any store around you probley.


love,
Ashley

Q: me and my boyfriend been together for pretty long now...and about four months into our relationship we started having sex...we have sex pretty much..and i was wondering is it wrong for me to like to have sex a lot...like im not a slut or anything i can go outwith it..i just like to do it..the only person i slept with was my boyfriend that i have now..i just dont want you people to think im a slut or anything..
No you aint a slut! Hun you love him and when you lvoe someone you give them all you can give! Theres never enough sex. If you like it keep having it. Just make sure its safe thats all.


Love,
Ashley

Q: my b/f says he loves me okay well everytime im on the phone with him he talks for only 10 mins but i call him b/c well he lives in Butler and i call on my cell!! and he says he is sry and stuff and iono wat to do b/c well i never see him and he is just like call me bac at this time and i do and he cant talk then either wat do i do ashley!! i need help babess!! u kno who i am hehe i love you !!
shh i wont say a word of who you are...its just between me and you... Well hun your only 14 so i think not trying to be mean well i think you should get a bf closer. Youll never no what hes doing like if hes with another girl you no. And you only new him for a night before you got with him. You dont no if hes like a player. And your so freakin pretty girl so many boys around here want you!! And they all just better back off SHES MINE!! LOL j/p. But maybe you should keep trying.. Fallow your heart. Whatever happens is ment to happen If your ment to be together youll come back together =o)So dont worry!! If you two do break up ill hook yoOou up with someone dont you worry girly pooh



Love the sexi hands
Of the hotest bitch
ever HAHA you loOve
it when i touch you
with them*Laughs*!!
~~~~~~Ashley~~~~~~~

Q: girl/14
see i think you should know who i am, i kinda used to be your best friend but you moved on to Lisa but i think i like someone thats a girl named chelsea Quinn but if i did anything with her everyone would make fun of me! i just dont know wat to do please help!
I'm just taking a guess HEY NIKKI BABI CAKES I LOVE YOU!! What girl??? You no i love you like a sister!! Thats no lie at all!! Dont think your not my bff i love you so much!! Were so close and you no everything...I dont think theres one thing you dont no about me yet....AND WE GOTTA HANG ALOT MORE BABI WE GOTTA ME+YOU=OMG WERE SUCH DUMB BUTTS i love fighting over what music were gonna watch haha funny!!RAP SUCKS lol..


I LOVE YOU SO MUCH NIKKI DONT EVER FORGET THAT
AND GOOD LUCK WITH JOSH****YOU MY TIGHT SPICK'
FRIEND OH YEAH BABI...YOU LOVE MY HANDS EVEN..
IF YOU NO WERE THEY BEEN =O)...OHS SO SEXIIIII

Q: my boyfriends Xgirlfriend is friends with my best friend and my boyfriends Xgirlfriend told my best friend that he never dumped her and idk what to do cuz he says that he loves me and he would never cheat on me and he said he dumped her a long time ago. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!
To me it sounds like his ex is mad cause you got a great boy that she lost...Shes probley just wanting you to like dump him or get in a fight so she can make her way in..Or he didnt dump her they just stopped talking(which is like a break up but some people dont think of it like it) So trust your bf nothings going on i bet you!!!If you need help with anything eles go ahead and ask!!


Love,
Ashley

Q: if a guy says he is gonna wait for u is he really going to or is he juss sayin that to make you feel better??
It depends on what you mean by wait

Waiting till you come back from were ever:
well from what happened to me its a lie. I gave my virginty to a guy that i new. I truely liked him i really did and he moved to FL and he said he would keep in touch and everythng but...guess all he had in mind was sex and you no what im sure hes down there with all them other girls right about now...cause he never mailed me back. But this boy your talking about might not lie but what i herd from all my boys that are my friends(there like my brothers and would never lie) Boy all got one thing i there heads and they'll say or do anything to get it....sex.... Im sorry i hope i didnt upset you but who noes your boy might not lie to you and i hope he didnt!!

If he says Ill wait till your ready to have sex:
Most of the time that means he will. And if hes not he wouldnt say that im sure!! Plus if he wasnt gonna wait he would leave..

Any more qustion you got just ask


P.S not all boys are the same so talk to him about it!!

Love,
Ashley

Q: hey its me again im the same one who wrote bout there fathers....but this time its bout my love life...ok...u see...i was datin this boy...nd he was my first love...nd wen we broke up we like had probs wit our friendship...but then we started talkin bout gettin back together...nd we were in love wit each other well atleast i thought we were...i loved him more then nethin in this world...nd he said he loved me too until one day he started datin his other ex gf again...nd it juss broke my heart but i got thru it...nd i started datin this other kid...nd i am happi...but then my first love nd his gf broke up...nd i knew from that point on that it was gonna effect me...bc wen he told me they broke up...nd we was talkin bout sumtin...he told me that he made the wrong decision he picked the wrong person nd that he was sorry nd he said he wishes he juss would of picked me....nd once that happened...i fell in love wit him again nd realized how much i cared for him....but i dont want to break my bf's heart...i dont knoe wut to do...please help me ash...!!

confused!
Well hun you gotta fallow your heart and it seems like no matter what path your taking it leads back to this boy. I under stand....i really do.. Theres this one kid and ill always like him. And my heart always seems to go to him when im single(i dont get it some times) Well i think you need to talk to this kid about it. Just be like alright if i end what i got with someone thats very nice and great to me were gonna hook up right. I'm not giving up something that i need for nothing right? Make sure you get a answer before you dump your bf you got now. And i no it might be hard but talk to your bf about the feelings your having for your EX im sure he'll help. If he under stands and still want to work things out and try to help you get over him... he wil if He truely loves you girl!! Your ex sound like he loves you but is having a problem with commeting himself fully out to you... But maybe hes changed...... Always remember hun ..... What ment to be will always be..... And soul mates will end up together some time or another... in this life time or in the next life time?? We just never no..... If you need more help or got any questions just ask im fully hopen with answering anything



Love,
Ashley

Q: To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?

I'm 17 he's 18.
Aw thats really sad. I'm sure when he comes back everything will be ok. He might just be scared to loose the bestest thing in his life. For him to no everything about you even your voices and that he really cares and you dont wanna give that up!! Sound to me your soul mates. When you talk to him tell him you would never do anything with luis cause you love him so much. And for the feelings thing for luis i would try to keep them out of your head. Some times being friends is the best when it comes to that. If you dont wanna have feeling for him just think about this cause if you dated him and then broke up you probley wouldnt have that great friend of yours there any more. I no how you feel its hard. My bestest friend asked me out and i used to like him but i told him no cause i no if we broke up things would never be the same. And he was just great to talk to about my boyfriends. Good Luck With Your BoyFriend!!! And never let him go he seems like one of the bestest boys out there. Oh yeah if you have any more question or you just need to talk ask some more!! Cause i no how it feels to loose your virginity to someone you care about and all that stuff hun. Hope i Helped.



♥Ashley♥

Q: okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it
Sit her down for a talk. And just tell her how you feel about going so fast and you would really like it if you slowed down. Tell her that its not her fault your just nurves and your not ready to go much farther at this point in time but later you will be. If she truely has feelings for you she'll under stand were your coming from and care about how you feel and will agree on slowing down for you. Hope i helped you out cause you sound like a nice guy cause most guys wanna go the whole way... I'm sure she'll be more then glad to slow down for you!!!


♥Ashley♥

Q: Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do
Well if you like her go for it. I hope you got her number so you can get to no her alittle bit before you do that though. And i no i regret not doing a few things so if you regret not doing it last time then maybe you should do it this time cause your probley gonna feel the same way again if you dont.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks
Well the looks dont matter so theres no need to put that. And i think you should talk to both of the boys about your feelings for them. You'll never no what they feel unless if you talk to them. After you talk to both then choice. The best one will stand out and your heart will no which ones your match. And if none of them are that just means theres someone even better out there for you soul mate. Good Luck!! And never give up on any love before you give it a chance. That'll help you out. Let me no how things go.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: ok but lol i keep buggin you b.u.t what if sherene wont let him come near me she probably will too .. answer that and by the way bitch god is mii brother so dont go there! and i hope you know when i talk to him in the beggining your gonna be right there.. well not when i say that shit you told me to say but when we first walk up to him.. kk ??!! thanx butt crack .. loOVvvEEeEE the biggest skank evaa... LiiiSSSsSSAAAa
Ok miss. Butt crack if sharean wont let him talk to you shes gonna have to talk to me!oh yeah... im gonna make sure it turns out great dont worrry and ill be right there when you say AsHlEy illl be there like paul on me!lol

kIsS ThIs CrAcK sKaNk WhORe lOver


Q: what if he wont talk to me at all you little dorkk face!! what if he is all over yeah you know who and i have no way to talk to him? answer this one u hoe =) love ya babess! thanks for the other answer hunnie buns
Ok bitchy pooh. Hes gonna talk to you i no it!! Im ashley i no everything and god is my brother. So i no it. And your gonna make it clear that you need to talk to him. And hun sharean aint got shit when it comes to you hun!!!


Love ThE Bitchest Of All Bitches




*-*empty spaces feel me up with hope distance face with no place left to go with out you within me i cant find a way were i going is any buddys guess... i try to go on like i never new you im awake but my world is half asleep i pray for this heart to be unbroken but with out you all im gonna be is incomplete*-*


Q: ya .. what do i say to this kid.. -- you know who -- well i juss thought i should tell him mii self because i feel weird having otha people ..and i dunno what to tell and how to tell him i like him .. help me bitch=)!! i love ya babes=) --LIiiisSSsSSAAAAaAaA!!!
by the way you skank im 14 wait no.. 15 well suttin like that and im female..!! duh im your lovely girl friend!! BIISEXUAL BABIII!!=)
omg i love you you skank bag!!
well bab it took me like ten min to write this lovey thing i think i would do if i was you...

well...just go up to him and be like corey you butt poop i need to talk dont walk away from me this is something important in my life that i just gotta no about....(youll move away from all the other people) ok dude i really like you its unreal how much i like you and everyone saying you like me but i dont know cause you wont tell me how you feel so will you pleaze right here right now tell me what your feeling for me cause if your not feeling anything then im just gonna have to move on on the outside but ill like you on the inside and if you like me alittle bit then im gonna try my hardest to make you like me alot to give me a chance and if you like me alot then i wanna make something happen i dont wanna be the girl thats just your friend or the girl that people tell you that she likes you i wanna be your girl...just yours.... dont look at me like that im gonna cry....... your probley thinking oh my god what a idoit or something but i cant take it im tired of being hurt in life your just such a great person and i dont no you that well but i no theres something so great in you its just so unreal...so tell me what your feeling?

if he says something good= cry and smile and say oh my god im so happy now and give him a hug and kiss him on the cheek and tell him you cant wait to have a future with him..
if he says something bad= cry lightly and hug him...(you talking)im glad i no now and im just gonna have to move on i guess its gonna be hard. i now learned not to fall in love with a stranger. and im sure theres a great girl your liking and good luck with her.....(walk aways to me(ashley)slowly then hug me)
now ashley just goes nigga style
(ashley walks up to him) you bitch you little fucker thats gonna work in the junk yard thats bout the bestest thing your gonna get in this life and you blow it away for what nothing omg you skank you little skank and dude get something for them split ends....lol sorry lisa i just want you to you to feel better thought that little part would help but dont worry i wont go up to him after....
but i dout hes gonna say something bad hun its all gonna work out great i just got this little belly feeling!! and if he does that whole little hug and tears and walk away and what i said for you to say will so get him and he'll scream lisa im sorry i wanna work something out i no it lisa...have i ever lied to you hun....nope i always ended up telling you the trueth and i hope i helped and if something ever happens like you two get together then something happens that just means theres something better out there and everything happens for a reason and if your ment to be hun it\'ll be one way or another you no it

if me and you no who the boy i like is ment to be then you and cory or so ment to be



love your skank bag ashley zzzzzzzz



i love **** and lisa

Q: hey well i am having a problem. okay i dated this guy for four months and i really fell in love with him. at first it was great he was sweet but then we started having problemslike arguing and we would just fuss all the time well that was about last semester of school. this is our second semester anyways his name was andrew and i found out that he had some problems like mental. and i kept breaking up and going back with him on and off. well we broke up feb. 2 of this year and i then started dating this other guy for almost three months. i fell in love with him and he was the second person i ever loved, but andrew was the first. when andrew found out about me and jeremy he started making threats to him and saying all this stuff. well then i finally told andrew to stop and let me live my life. okay me and jeremy have been broke up for a month and a few days. i then have dated this guy michael whom i with now, well i dont care to much for him like everybody thinks. then today andrew's Best Friend who has grown up together came up to me and told me about andrew wanting me back i thought i was for sure over him but when he told me that all these feelings have come back and i am so confused on what to do. my friends say call him and see if he changed and the question is should i call him? and see if it is true? or should i write him well i am writing him now well plz help nikki
Aws give him a chance again. Its not like he cheated on you or anything. And you said you loved him.

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: okay...i am 13 f. my bf tried to french kiss me, and he bit my tounge. did i do something wrong? do u know a way that i could help him be a better kisser? thanks -olga
LOL i bet he felt like a ass. Well you could kiss more!! that just cracks me up that he bit your tongue. Did he say sorry?


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: do most girls shave their pussys?
Lol well i no i dont shave. I nair its stuff that takes hair off of any were. But most girls do


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Ok
What kinds of girls attract you, and what kinds turn you off?

Well my friend attract me!!lol were all BI you no... but i like girls with nice shoulders and im not in it for the looks well yeah i am lol i think you should just got with the ones that are more your type you no girls that like to do things you do

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.
If he cryed he really must have feeling for you!! The age dont matter. If you like someone and have feelings for them nothings going to stop that!! But if you dont want to go out with him dont go out with him cause its only going to hurt him worse in the end when he finds out why you went out with him. Most of all dont go out with him thinking you'll learn to like him. Love aint like math like you'll learn how to do it. But i really think he likes you and you should give him a chance. Let me no how things turn up


Love'
Sweetie Pie Ashley



I read your feed back. IF he hit you dont go out with him!! And your brother will be pissed. Just tell him what you told me that your bro will be mad and your mom and dad dont want you dating him.

Q: how do you get over a broken heart?
Go out with you girls and have a great night!! Dont go out with another boy right after take some time to get over the lover. Dont go out with another boy right after you brake up with them cause ive done that not good. I broke up with a great lover and then i went out with another one fell in love and broke up then went out with another boy to get over them two boys and then we broke up and i just kept doing it and i just made things worse. But when your ready to move on then you should.

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

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AshleyZ416
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Lisa
Sam
Ashley(me)

Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair



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