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So theres this guy at my school, and me and him have been really good friends for about a year. so today after school he comes up and attacks me, gives me a hug, then kissed me on the forehead. i kinda like him but my sister hates him so i could never date him. or me and my sister wouyld like nevr talk again....what should i do??? (link)
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It depends on how close you and your sister are. talk to her and tell her how much you like him. if she really loves you then she will understand. its not fair to keep you away from something you really want, because feelings just dont go away over night. If she still doesn;t give then i guess take her word. maybe she has a reason for not really liking him. Family comes before friend/ boyfriends. Basically, I would talk to your sister. that would probably make things a whole lot better!
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ok well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now and i am as much as in love with him as i was the first day we started going out. I was just wondering if anyone who can give me some advice on how to keep the relationship going as great as it is. I know there are ups and downs in relationships. I also want to know how to handle moving into my own place for a year while i am at beauty school and he is working a full time job. thanks and sorry if its confusing (link)
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Well, apperantly you huys love eashother and want to be together. the realtionship basically works by its self after that. IF you communicate and trust eachother than you shouldnt have many problems. and about the school and job thing. sometimes its better to be away from eachother like that. its like the saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder." If you are living with him its not liek you wont ever see him. when you guys are together it will make you love him so much more because you are not getting sick of eachother!
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how do i keep the girl im with for a very longtime we really are attracted and like eachother alot its me being scared to lose her? how do i keep her for a longterm relationship
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Just be good to her! respect her and dont screw around on her. If she wants to be with you, then be there for her. but try not to together TOO much untill you guys are really committed because that can cause a relationship to crash, depending on how close you are. take her out, comunicate with her, ask her about her. girls love to talk about themselves, asking her about her like will make you seem intereseted in her!
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16/f. I have a very strange boyfriend of 3 months. For one thing, he told me that he cheated on me today..He said that while I was away on vacation for 4 days..his old friend came over his house to do "science homework" but they ended up doing much more than that. At first, he didn't tell me what it was they did. I got upset because he cheated on me (in general). But then, later on, when I seemed to have cooled down, he told me he engaged in oral sex with that girl. I was shocked..and I kept on wondering why he would tell me that in the first place. But then, he got all upset about it. And started telling me "I love you, I love you and I'm sorry" and all that other crap. I don't know what to do. Usually, I'm too nice and forgiving. What would you do? :( He's my age. (link)
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I say don't take him back. He will hurt you again. its one thing of he just kissed her and pushed her a away and said "no I have a girlfriend," but he didn't. he did more and if wasn't thinking about you at all during the problem or telling her no, than thats wrong. NOBODY deserves to be cheated on and nobody deserves to be taken back after cheating on someone, especially that badly. I hope my advice was good.
Ashleigh.
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My boyfriend & i of about 5 months fight non stop every night for like the past month. We have been fighting about his exs & about stupid stuff. Such as hes trying to be friends with them even though i don't want him to talk to girls. I feel like hes going to go with them because there better.and lately he's been acting like he doesn't love me. Like he doesn't show it in the ways he used to. I just don't want this relationship to be over. I need advice how to get over this fighting. adn how i can trust him more.
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ok i went through this exact thing. i didnt think me and my man would last because i thought he was cheating on me if he talked to a girl or if his ex was around he would just leave me. the thing is, about 80 percent of the time, they arent doing anything. my boyfriend and i would grow away from eachother becuz of it but now we have been together for over a year. just dont worry about because even if he does talk too a girl it doesnt mean he wants her. unless you know for a fact that he is cheating or no he has, dont sweat it. its a waist of time and a waist of life. i hope you take my advice.
Ashleigh
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ii really like this boy :( (link)
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i say just forget about him. you dont deserve this, at all. im sure you could get so much better. just try to distract yourself by hanging out with your friends or watch tv or something. i wouldnt say go out and find someone new because if you get into another relationship to soon it might not last because you still like someone else. so just let someone come to you and get to know you first. i hope you take my advice. Ashleigh
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ok here is the story. i met a cute (older by like 2 years)guy in one of my classes. we made that wierd akward eye connection thing where you tense up and don't know what to say. anyway after class he started talking to me and he had a good vibe going, (tip: i was the only girl in my class because it was a technology class) and he was so easy to talk to. the next day we start talking and flirting (it was really obvious) and he asks me for my email and if i had a man (boyfriend). i said no and gave him my email. here's the delema, that day after my classes i stayed at the school for the newspaper that i'm apart of and i saw him and said hi and stuff. when i left the school i saw him sitting on a bench with a girl on his lap. i'm not sure if that was just an affectionate friend or a girlfriend. if that was his girl i would still want to know him as a friend but she might not be. well i still don't know him well but i don't want to start hanging with him and flirting just to be shot down and finding out he had a girl and played with my emotions...what should i do? (link)
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deffinantly a player. honey, do not get involved. you will completly be shot down and he will think he can take advantage of you. be true to yourself. dont let somebody hurt you like that.=] hope you take my advice
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There is this one boy at my school who gets on my nerves 24/7. he likes me and he has told me he has liked me but i dont like him at all and i only see him as a friend. Plus im taken. And he nos that but he just wont quit. he keeps trying to touch me and get close to me but i just push him off me and tell him to stop. i dont know how to get this dude to stop because i just want to be friends with him.
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ok DO NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER! you need to be a bitch to him. i know how this feels. some guy did the same thing and it made me feel that if i said something he would totally turn everyone against me. well, eventually i said F*** it and just went off on him and told him that if he ever direspects my body again i will either call the cops or get my man on him and i dont care who he turns against me. do not let any body make you feel intimidated...EVER. and for real im srry this is happening and i hope you do the right thing!!
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So last year when i was an 8th grader i went to a new school.there was this guy there named kenny and I never really didnt noticed him beside the point that i used to like one of his friends... anyway I started to talk to another one of kenny's friends named charles well charles isnt my type so when he told me that he like me I ignored it. as for as I can tell charles lies alot so I figured that charles was telling his friends( including kenny) lies about me out of jealousy! I ignored it well at the end of the school year i was on the phone with one of my friends while he was at the movies he said that he saw kenny so I asked him if I could talk to him- so i told kenny that I liked him and he said I like you too then I said i think he's hot and he said I think your hot too. Then the whole summer went buy and then I saw him at open house and feel in love with him (since i started to like him during summer)I told my best friend that i was going to get with kenny no matter what well me and kenny were cool and we talked then oneday I let it be known to everyone that I like kenny this went on for like 2 months then charles wanted us to get together but kenny didnt want to ask me he wanted me to ask him well anyways charles yelled out if kenny wanted to get with me and he said yes then we were together...the same day we got together he went home cause he wasnt feeling well then the next day he came to school but we werent talking much I know that he was trying to be a good boyfrind it just wasnt there so i asked him that day after school if he even wanted to be with me and he said that he likes me but that it just wansnt there(we broke up)...we still hugged in the hall constantly and talked very few...he ended up getting into a fight with his friends and no longers hangs out with them he more of a loner now and not so socialble...for a while I would call his name and he would ignore me and most other people... now I feel like he is ignoring me only and dosent like me anymore-he told my friend that he does still a little- but everytime I come around he leaves-from the clues whats going on with kenny help help help(ps he dosent leave when my friend lisa comes around just other people..could he like her and how do i start talking to him again)????
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ok i know you probably do like him aloT and you really do want to be friends with him, but maybe he just isnt worth your time. if he wants to talk to you then he will come around one day, if not, then there is nothing you can do. just wait a week or two and then if he doesnt talk, then forget about it and move on. no sence in putting all your time into one person when there is plenty out there that aactually wanna be with you and think you are a good person. just dont trip out about one person. im sure you are a great girl and you want to let him no that, but you need to let other ppl no that too. i hope you take my advice.
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ok i masturbate like once every 2 days and i was wondering..can i pick up sperm from like anywhere and have it be on my hand and get pregnant. does sperm just like float around on surfaces? i know i'm probably stupid but help!! (link)
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no you deff. don't sound stupid. don't even say that. but no you cant. usually if you have a health class in high school they will teach you all about that kind of stuff. bacteria and sperm bacteria CANNOT live outside the body. thats a fact.=]
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I like a guy. Im pretty sure he dosen't like me.
therefore i don't think ill get anything from him on vday. sob. there is a guy who likes me and something might come from him on vday. since i don't like him do i keep the gift? (link)
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This has happened to me once. yes keep the gift, but you still have to reassure him that it isnt going to work out but you can deff. be friends, if he wants. it worked with me so i hope you take my advice=]
Ashleigh
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okay so in like two weeks is a school party for valentines day and well i want to go but i want my boyfriend to go with me!!! but he doesnt like to go to them or his parents wont let him. any ways... i cant hang with him after school or on weekends.. we are trying to make plans but ya. well i really need help on ways to give him hints on the dance... i was thinking of bringing it up to my friend lidsey right by him but i dont know. so any opinions are great!! PLEASE HELP. thanks bunches!! 14/f (link)
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you should just say straight up to him. the worst he can say is no. if he really likes you he will compromise the best he can.=]
Ashleigh
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