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Q: im 14 female and theres this guy i have a crush on ive never said any thing to him thought i want to talk to him but he is really shy and he dosnt really talk to any one he dosnt know what should i do? i dont want to make it obvious either

Hey.
Well, what you need to do is start to become friends, and talk and stuff. get his screenname if he has one or if you have one. Just start talking n' become friends. then maybe kinda show him you really like him, maybe he will understand. Oh and if you to start dating n stuff, here's a tip : DONT LET HIM GO. no matter what. because you'll end up regreting everything. and that totally sucks. (i've been there, and im still upset too)

=] [ &iheartsyou; ] -ash

Q: ok well theres this guy that im sorta goin out with...his names daniel. He asked me out in november, but then he got grounded and I havent talked to him in like 3 months. So i considered us broken up. I started liking this other guy, steffon, and yesterday my friend told him that she knew who liked him (i asked her to) but she didnt say my name...I went online after school and i got an email from my friend, saying that daniel wanted to take me to my schools valentines day dance. I feel awful now, becuase I dont know what to do. Either way, someones gonna end up getting hurt, but Im not sure who I should go with. I like daniel a lot, but im afraid that if we officaly start dating again hes gonna do the same thing. Please help me! ♥Danielle

sorry its so long

Hey. i think that he only wanted you when he had nowhere else to go or someone to turn to. i think you need to just follow your heart. if he likes you alot, and your willing to give another chance, go for it. but if things just arent in the right place and stuff like your upset, let it go. If he really needs you and he shows how much he does, and this kidd you really like. take chances. you'll know whats right. =]

=] [ &iheartsyou; ] -Ash

Q: I like 2 guys and i dont know what to do because i dont know which one i like more! what should i do?

I have gotten there before and they liked me back and i didnt know what to do well soon to find out the other one was really mean and a fake so i got the other guy What i am saying is you have to Trust which is for you which guys would hold your hand in font of his friends? know something really stupid about You but love you for who You are? Take you to the best place in the world and have dirty chothes on i am saying choose the lucky guy if its hard wait until they say something to You should know thats how i got my guy i love him i had to choose between two guys and the other one didnt like me so i kinda got him lol
...*Always ask me*...

Q: Ok there is this guy that i really like. He asked me out but my mom said i was to young to go out with anyone. I think he still likes me and i know i still like him. But the problem is he keeps saying things like i like you and your hott to me but then he goes off and asks out like 3 other girls. I really want him to just like me and not just like me because he needs a girlfriend and i was his first try. What should i do?
P.S. Thanks ahead of time!

Wel...maybe u should have some friends go up to him and be like "she really likes you and she wants you to like her more" just say stuff to him and maybe he will get the point like"hey this girl really likes me wow!" and just wait until he ask you...i know... and hopefuly he will like you..!! hope i helped you out!
xOx

Q: ok, my friend, lets call her jane is going out with this guy, lets call him joe. i like joe, joe likes me. jane found out but she didnt have a problem with it. i was home sick from school today and even before today, everyone was telling me that joe was going to dump jane for me. if he really does ask me out and all, should i say yes or what because i am so confused and caught in the middle and i feel really bad cuz i think that i'm the cause of them breaking up. help! n thx ahead of time

You should talk to Joe. But it was okay with jane so why would it matter. i mean she said it was but if u feel really part of being low in this u need to talk to him. My friend is the same way. But al long as she understand and Joe Does okay with it then it shouldnt be a problem. Luv yiz

Q: Okay. I used to go to private skool 2 years ago. Me and this guy really liked eachother and we went to the skool dance together. I now go to public skool and I like this guy. The guy from private skool sent me an email today saying that he truly likes me. But
I think the guy from the public skool likes me too. Which one should I choose?

Well i say choose who you like more..i know u might like em both but i say choose the one that your heart will take! dont mix and match and play the "which" game...i know i have done it too! but as long as you follow your heart you will know....xOx

Q: I just moved to this new school. The problem is I still like this other boy from my old school. i know i may never see him again... but i still like him and i'm the only one who knows it. What should i do?

Move on. i know its hard to do that but i knwo there are other HOTT fish in the sea..LOL but try and see if there is more guys you like. I still like this guy and i havent seen in in a year but i am over him. so i just move on with life. Hope i helpd ya. XoXo

Q: hey advicenators! ok heres my story: me and my boyfriend have been going out since new years eve, and we see each other at school and hang out on the weekends, and talk at night, but it doesnt seem to me like we are going out! its basically like hes my friend, except we hug before we leave. how can i make it more like hes my boyfriend, and less like one of my friends? thanks guys!

Well You should just start fliting and hold hands more and keep close to him more...like as in love...boyfriend and girlfriends always think the are not going out but if you want to You have to love him more like a boyfriend...Hope i Helped you out
Ashley

Q: There's this guy I like and i thought he liked me too. But then my friend had to go and mess everything up. She ran up to him and started bugging him and told him I was in love with him (which I'm not-I just like him). And now he's acting all weird around me. What should I do?

(I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I'm a female)

PLEASE HELP!!

I can see your point! that is what happend to my sister kinda! but that is not a true friend if she is gonna do that to you and if you like him you need to tell him "hey look i am not in love with you i just like you" hope he will inderstand. hope i helped! luv ~addie~

Q: ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend.

I say talk to him...if u really like him and you wanna be his girlfriend then tell him. You prolly dont wanna be treated like that i know i sure wouldn't! So just talk to him! hope i help ya! luv Addie*

Q: hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO

I would go for it! and if u are scared to whatever to lose your friendship with him then dont... it what you want and your heart to feel.. cause i can understand you like this dude and you should try it but if u dont wanna lose he's friendship then dont..all i am saying it to choose what is best for you...

Q: My ex boyfriend and me broke up because he said ive always accused him, which i didnt know i was, I always just asked him if he was doing stuff with this one gurl.. well anyway the gurl that i heard he was doing stuff with he is now going out with her, and I still really like him and i dont know whether i should tell him i still like him, because his girlfriend hasnt been at school for the past two days and today in the hall he said hi to me and waved and he never does that when his gf is in school.. do u think he still likes me and how would be a good way to get him back?

i think just ask him. Ask him what is up! and hope he will understand... if he is gonna be 2faced or w/e then foget him but if he likes you and the other gurl he is just playing...you should just talk to him and if he doesnt listen then thats he's fault! just talk to him...need more advice on it? IM me on Ashbug203 or go to my site...
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Q: A couple weeks ago, I had a dream that my guy friend kissed me. I woke up not wanting it to stop and I was really mad that it was just a dream. I started to think that maybe I had feelings for him just a bit and when I saw him a few days after that I was acting all weird and shy. I dunno what I should do. I'm too scared to talk to him!

xxx Keely

I think that you should ask him or maybe talk to him about this. maybe he'll think its okay. I say talk to him and tell him about your dream! tell him why you were acting shy and hope he will be okay with it. Just talk to him...if he dont understand maybe get some friends to help you out. Try it. and if it doesnt work then try to forget it.

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