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i need advice
im 14 female and theres this guy i have a crush on ive never said any thing to him thought i want to talk to him but he is really shy and he dosnt really talk to any one he dosnt know what should i do? i dont want to make it obvious either
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Find something the two of you have in common and talk about it or try and get him to talk about it. My boyfriend was a very shy person but then I started talking to him and he found out we had similar interstes and got over his shyness. It's a great icebreaker when you know about something he likes. Maybe talking to him online would be less awkward and uncomforatble for him if he is a really shy person and that wouldn't make it obvious. Befriending him first may be a good idea so that he has a chance to really get to know you and become comfortable.
Good luck :)
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that happened to me and in the end i just gave him a note that said i like you and then it all worked out
just try it
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You know, its actually easier this way. If he doesnt really talk to people, then you can do basic stuff to begin with (if hes in your class ask to borrow something, or ask the answer to something, or generally ask how he is and what he did at the weekend. After a while you can ask him what hes doing next weekend, if hes not doing anything ask him to do something with you. You'll just seem reallly friendly. And cuz u talk to him and no one else does he will think your nice and after a while he will totally adore you. Trust me quiet people are easy. Careful though, he might be isolating himself, so just because he says no about something doesnt mean hes not interested. Invite him out eith some of your friends if you think it will be awkward. Be there for him, when no one else is. He'll like you. Best of luck xxxx
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Hey.
Well, what you need to do is start to become friends, and talk and stuff. get his screenname if he has one or if you have one. Just start talking n' become friends. then maybe kinda show him you really like him, maybe he will understand. Oh and if you to start dating n stuff, here's a tip : DONT LET HIM GO. no matter what. because you'll end up regreting everything. and that totally sucks. (i've been there, and im still upset too)
=] [ &iheartsyou; ] -ash
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