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Ok there is this kid at my school and he likes me but he is just EW!Well he always tells his friends all theese stuff like I want to touch her ass and all and his friend tells me.Well I have told him over and over that I dont like him or get lost and all I started out rejecting him really nicly and all I didnt want to hurt his feeling but now I just cant help to be mean.. He is really nice and all but he is ugly and to nasty for me he alway can find 1 word and turn it into something sexaul

Well, you shouldn't judge by looks, but he's a jerk. Try to find him somebody else to bother. Or, well i'm not saying this will work, but maybe try actually accepting him for a minute. Like, freak him out. He probably just thinks its a game now, he'll never expect you to actually respond to him. I dunno, something to think about.

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Prom is coming up next month. I decided a few months ago that I wouldn't go because I am at a new school and don't have any 'real' friends here (like I did at my old school), but now I am starting to think that it might be fun. I love to dress up and dance. No one has asked me though, but I know I can go alone (which would suck though). Do you think I can crash someone else's table? Should I go?

Well, you can always ask some one! If not only go if you know that your going to have fun, or you'll get there and wish you didn't go. Don't crash somone else's table though. You don't even have to go with a guy, If you know a girl without a date, you could meet there and hang out together, you'd know then that you'd have someone to talk to

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One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him?

yes, yes I do. Hint around to tell him that your interested, or whether he's interested. If you know he's interested still, tell him. Then he can make the choice whether he wants to dump his girlfriend, or stay with her. You'll never know till you put it out there.

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help i get so depressed some times im starting to drink and i dont want to go any depper into alchohol. can you help me please i hate my new school im so unhappy

moving sucks. I know i moved 8 times before I hit puberty. I know you've heard it a million times before, but just get out there and meet some people. Join clubs, and stuff

alchohols fun once and a while at parties, but don't go over board. take care.

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A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?

thank you

Wow, your me. People see me the same way. But thats thier fault. They don't take the time to get to know you just see good grades, decent friends, and think PERFECT!

It didn't go away completely for me in high school. You have to get to know someone a lot before they relize that you're not the person they thought. The best thing to do is find a few REALLY good friends. Then get to know people, by the end of high school, I wasn't miss perfect anymore. I was just one of the class

hope i helped!

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I'm in a family low on money (my mom and dad have low income jobs) well I was supposed to sign up for spring league basketball($40) or cheerleading($65) and couldn't because we have no money. Now everyone thinks I'm poor and is making fun of me even my BFF. What should I do?

Firstly, what jerks. If they can't accept your financial situation it's thier problems. Show them that your independaant and that you can hold your own. Walk with your head high, and try not to show any pain when they make fun of you.

As for missing out for your sports, that sucks. I did cheerleading camp a few years ago, what a blast. Why don't you try picking up sum babysitting jobs, or something, make a few bucks so you could go?

Hope I helped

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