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Q: My teacher keeps calling me "Satan" what should I do?
When I asked him about why he called me Satan he told me it was because he thinks that I am evil inside and deceitful. I know that I am not a perfect person ,but I strive to be a good Christian when he called me this name I feel discouraged. But one of the biggest reasons that this title " Satan" hurts more is because I truly look up to this person, he is my favorite teacher by him calling me this name, it makes me feel that he does not like me. What should I do?
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tell him. that he not the judge and that God is only judge for judgement day..
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Q: Lately i have been stressed out on what career I want to be when I grow up, I am only a junior in high school. Sometimes I want to be a doctor, but in reality I only want to be a doctor because they look cool on television( grey's anatomy), so I can get attention for my elders, and it has a lot of money. At first everything was cool, in fact I was able to watch a surgeon perform surgery in person, but I did not feel anything- no true excitement or happiness. But now all of my elders( adults ) are saying I have a great personality to be a doctor, but what if I just do not want to be a doctor anymore, I only wanted to be one for the moment not for the long run ! In addition, I stressed out with school work. I totally burnt out, since the tenth grade so I have been having trouble with doing my work, I do not know what to do to boost myself up again. Lastly, I have been stressed out in French, even though I am one of the smartest ones there, so I dropped French for next year but I do not know if it was right to drop it. It is hard to deal with stress when you have no one you can talk about it with, someone who can be unbiased about these things. My mom would be biased, my sister wouldn't care, my dad is not easy to talk to, I do not have friends only associates so I am not comfortable to say anything, my french teacher is apathetic towards me--I am honestly lost, what can I do?
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Be good time to really think about what you want to do. now and days it takes a lot of schooling and collages to get the place you want.. I regret not studying hard enough for i wanted to be in high school or yet before high school but there are some change there mind and that okay. just find what will make you happy and what not. and french i don't see why not. do what make you happy and that life is more important then school stuff. hope i help
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Q: If you had to pick one thing that bothers you about your relationship that you feel needs to change so that the relationship can be successful what would that be? Please elaborate...
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Stop the Drama,
Be a peaceMaker..
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Q: at my school and cheerleading team it seems to me like everyone is so immature. im a junior in high school and im really quiet mainly because im shy but also because i just never know what to talk about or how to respond to people at my school.
i went to a summer program for high school students this summer and i made a ton of friends there and was pretty talkative because we would all have actual real conversations... but coming back here im really quiet and i can't make friends easily because everyone is always hyper and crazy and i just can't relate to them and i never know what to say and it has gotten me depressed lately...
is every high school student like this or is it just mine? and is college going to be different or is it just me that has issues? and how do i start having better social skills and stop being depressed? what do i do about not being able to communicate with them?
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I been there and done that..
i know how you feel. but be honest kids at school are not there true self sometimes. they don't act how they do at home and they do there. plus kids talk about everything you know movies or what they did this weekand. tv shows. that how i did. i met a freind all we talk about the tv show we watch everynight.. when you talk to people you don't have to force your self talk about something that they talk about. find something you have in command like how was that test in math class or something like that. but sometime kids don't want to talk about school and work. that why. it funny that way. yeah high school and collage pretty much the same. find somone who quiet to find somone that reading and siting by thre self ask them what they are reading. and just pick any topic to talk about see if person like talking about. like me i like talking about life,weather,sometimes tv shows and movies. and music. oh and of curse guys lol.
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Q: my boyfriend is expelled from school. Hes now on probation too. Hes still smoking pot and i cant get him to stop. I sound hypocritical because i do it too but im not kicked out of school and in a bunch of shit. How can i convince him to stop while hes on probation? Hes ALWAYS around it and i cant do anything about that because he lives with people who do it and are okay with it.
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I think you both need to stop.. Life is not get any better if you guys do that stuff. i mean your hurting your family and friends and people care about you. even people don't know you care about you. why tell him if he want make life better and things better stop doing pot. it not help kids grow and make world better place. thoes things are history. why keep history with us? think about it. tell him you want to stop and not want be around him if he doing it. move on something new and ther alot greater things out then then doing pot and thing that just waste of time and not worth it. think of things you can do just mak it happend and stop doing things to hurt others. if you don't like peopel hurting you don't hurt them..
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Q: I'll make this long story short by bulleting it.. Basically this girl doesnt like me... idk why...
- On one occasion she started talking about how me and my bf should get a room and she was just being rude and obnoxious.
- Another time she was trying to start trouble by loudly saying she was going to take our food and all this other nonsense.
- lastly, she bangs a window everytime she sees us. That was the last straw. I'm sick, so i just took my breakfast and pushed her out the way, so did my bf. and we left even though she was yelling all this stuff.
She goes to the same school im in.. so when she saw me and my bf she started getting in my face saying "You wanna push me?!" over.. and over.. and over..
all i said was "what do you gain from yelling? Nothing". so she lowered her voice.
moved on to my bf trying to start trouble with him then she spat at him.
Now supposedly she wants to fight me tomorrow. I SERIOUSLY dont know what her problem is... we dont even know her. Oh and she apparently hates us spanish people. I see this as such an immature attempt to ruin my fun. Either she's jealous of something, or just is a trouble maker.
ANy suggestions on what I should do?
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dose she do just the 2 of you? or other people to.. she maybe just a bully and don't like see people happy and yes she is being Immture. sometmes people have hard life or something and people mean to her she be mean others. if your in jr high then she still gotta alot growing up todo. high school okay thats just really bad. if it get worst you guys go see a teacher or the princle.. or else just be nice to her no matter what. but if that not work go see a teacher or guideness cancel can talk to her..
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Q: so im 5'2 and my boyfriend is probably 5'3 .
im 18 and hes 21.
we have a very healthy happy relationship, ive very smart we havent had sex yet or any of that.. (although none of this really pertains to my question im jsut putting these facts out there for you people who might try to lecture me)
anyway my question is does anyone have any advice for me, obviously its kinda weird for someone of his age to be so short, and when i bring him around with me all my friends like look at us and some make fun of me for dating him cause hes so short.. hes actually good looking tho and my friends have said that hes just really really short, and like a lot of people in my school make a lot of jokes and say like you can do so much better and i love him so much but im already really self conscious and all these comments make me so sad and i just dont want to bring him anywhere with my friends and i feel bad becuase he will ask me like why dont you ever invite me with your friends anymore and i dont know what to tell him. I just hate being made fun of and it hurts when people make fun of the person you have feelings for. Do you really think that its weird when you see a bf and gf that are the same height and both really really short like we are?
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this never get old. Short and being tall shouldn't matter not important. all matter you guys have eachter. plus kids at school can be jerks they just want to fnd way to make you guys hurt and bring you down. becoue other people bring them down probly. remeber not care what people think. just say that your lucky that your have him.
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Q: (15/f)
Hey everyone. Recently, i've been having problems with my self-cofidence. I use to be so confident and loving with myself untill about two weeks ago. I don't know what happended to me, but everything just went downhill. I started to feel hideous, and not good enough for some people. Another major thing is that i don't stand out in a crowd. If im with my friends, (who are GORGEOUS) guys tend to go straight to them and i'm always left hanging. They don't want to associate themselves with me i believe, and they rather would talk to another girl. Even i admit, there is nothing wrong with me, but i don't have a special quality that would make guys want to hang out with me or remember me. If anyone needs more information, i give write down more and anyone has ever felt this way and dealt with it, it is appreciated if you help me out with some advice. Thank you very much.
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Remeber never do anything make people like you. you find people like you for you. I know how you feel and i Know what high school was like, I think it never will end always be the same. let just say it not like on tv. sometimes you see people act certatin way they watch to much tv. but you like try something. if you like jokes you look up jokes ask anybody they like hear a joke or you stand out say i have funny joke i read other day or something. try find things that you like whwt they like. when you get out of high school trust me some kids not be who they were some but not all. just be who you are and maybe once in awhile you maybe wear something like ring or braclek or necklace that they comment they like it or something. you know try get converstaion going. oo Boys allways be immture in high school. just remeber boys just boys. they think they need look at beatuy instead our souls. but don't worry you find that guy. never know nice guy looking at ya you don't notice becouse you could give them chance never know what happend. hope i Help
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Q: ok so this year my school is starting a rotational schedule and so everyone has the same lunch period at the same time. and so i have one group of friends of ~ 6 people and then my other best friend who is not part of that clique -- she has her own circle of friends.
i want to sit with both groups but both sides are assuming i'll sit with them, and idk who to sit with! last year i sat with the group of 6 because my other bff didn't have lunch the same period as me.
honestly, i wanted to sit in a classroom and do homework during lunch after i ate with my other bff but i still need someone to sit with during actual lunch if i choose not to do homework one day.
sitting with the group of 6:
- PRO: i'd be in on the gossip (i wouldn't "fall" out of the circle)
- CON: i can't sit with my bff and i don't want to lose her as a friend
sitting with my bff:
- PRO: i get to see her cause i love her and she might do homework with me!
- CON: i might start falling out of the circle / the circle might get mad.
i know in the end it's upto me, and please don't say "one person vs. six" cause she has helped me more than those six people have combined.. i don't think i can sit with both cause my bff is friends with only one person in my circle.
(1) what do you think i should do?
(2) do you think i could possibly sit with both the girl and my group, encouraging that she talks to both me and the only other person that she's friends with in my circle?
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You know what I think, I think in this centery now it been like that since I was in school and since our moms were school, now I think that everyone sit together. maybe ask your friend sit with you sometimes meet your friends they don't have become pals, and if you feel need sit with your frined and talk do so. you don't have sit same place everyday. I didn't I know i was in school, i Had few freinds they all sit different places, in once awhile I haven't talk one friend i sit with them, my other friends didn't care. if they care who you sit with they not your true freinds and not very understanding. they not notice you not sitting there or where your at. not they care they know your there they prolby thought your just visting your other friends, i am sure your friends feel the same way. i am sure they have other freinds in lunch room they might invited or go sit. don't worry to much about it. so there shouldn't be a circle anymore..
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Q: I really want a bf but im not so confident around guys how should i talk to guys and how should i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out please help.
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DOn't rush in to anything. be a guy freind frist. being friends first. let them get know you and ask like hang out with group of friends, sit at lunch with you. be nice and friendly, ask him what he like stuff like that. sometimes guys like it when girl ask them out. but frist maybe ask to go movies or help with eacher with home work or something like that. you can't really just make a guy like you. just be your self and show you like him and want to be friends
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I am a Postive Person, I enjoy helping other way I can, sometimes I know hows it feels or I been there and done that.. I try my best help as I can I pretty much know more about Family and Friends on the hopic and maybe few others.
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