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Hi im a 13 year old girl... whenever my friends have a problem they always come to me because im really good with advice... I admit there are times where I cant answer somethings but most of the time im good... but i can never seem to give myself advice...
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there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say?
teh can you say stalker!!! go up to him and be like "why do you follow me everywhere???" let him answer and if its a dumb answer just be like "well i dont like it so stop" but hey maybe he likes you or somethin then maybe you can get to know him and stuff and maybe youll go out with him in the future... : )
hope i helped if you need anymore help just drop one in my box!
-Kati
OK well one of my bestfriends told me he liked me and asked me to be his gf but i didnt want to mess up our relationship so i said no but then later in the school year i began likeing his bestfriend and we hooked up but then when we hooked up my bestfriend lets call him "Homer" got all weird around me then he poured out his feelings to me and know all i do is think of him but i have strong feeling about my bf but with douts on the side and i have no idea of wut to do with either of them.
okay well it depends on how you feel about your bestfriend... because i have had this problem many times... if you dont really like your bestfriend say to him "idk your a really nice guy but your my best friend and i dont want to ruin our friendship.." and your b/f you should talk to him about your doubts.. and if it doesnt work out then hes not the one anyway... but if you do like your bestfriend... then give him a shot... i did that with my bestguy friend... it didnt work but were still bestfriends... and i know how your bestfriend feels... so give him a chance...
hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )
Kati
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Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?
okay well i think that you should write out what your going to say... (i know it sounds stupid) and rehearse it... untill you have it memorized and then when your talking ot her just pretend its a different person that you ARE comfortable with... hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )
Kati