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It seems I've spent many hours talking to my friends and offering advice, and as people keep coming back for it, I assume I'm not bad at it.I know what it's like to be in love, and I also know what it's like to have your heart broken. I know what it's like to be depressed and feel anger towards all the people that love you - your friends, your family, your parents, your teachers. Advice is something I've always been good at, as my friends tell me. So if you want honest advice, ask me and I'll do my best to answer.
Aside from that, here's the basic info on me:
BASiCS
001.Name: Valerie
002.D.O.B.: July 10, 1989
003.Place Of Birth: St. Petersburg, Russia
004.Location: Navarre, FL
005.Religion: open minded
006.Occupation: student at Navarre High
APPEARANCE
001.Hair: brown/blonde highlites, past shoulders
002.Eyes: blue-green
003.Height: 5'4"
STYLE
001.Clothing: Aeropostale, Pac Sun
002.Music: Yellowcard, Simple Plan, Avril Lavigne, Linkin Park, Trapt, Switchfoot
003.Make-up: eye liner and lip gloss
004.Body art: none
EITHER / OR
001.Club or houseparty: club
002.Tea or coffee: coffee
003.Achiever or slacker: a bit of both
004.Beer or cider: beer
005.Drinks or shots: shots
006.Cats or dogs: cats
007.Single or taken: both have advantages
008.Pen or pencil: pen
009.Gloves or mittens: gloves
010.Food or candy: food
011.Cassette or cd: CD's
012.Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi
013.Hard or mild alcohol: mild
014.Matches or a lighter: lighter
015.Sunset beach or sunrise: sunset
HAVE YOU EVER...
001.Dated one of your best friends? yes
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry? yes
003.Drank alcohol? yes
004.Done drugs: no
005.Broken the law: who hasnt?
006.Ran away from home: no
007.Broken a bone: no
008.Cheated on a test: ....yes
009.Skinny dipped: no but sounds fun
010.Played truth or dare: yes
011.Flashed someone: for me to know
012.Mooned someone: no
013.Kissed someone you didn't know: no
014.Been on a talk/game show: no
015.Been in a fight: yes
016.Ridden in a fire truck: not yet
017.Been on a plane: yes
018.Come close to dying: yes
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend: never
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride: yes
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie? no
022.Swam in the ocean: yes
023.Had a dream that made you wake up: yes
ARE YOU...
001.A Vegetarian?: no
002.A Good Student?: yes
003.Good At Sports?: only if i like the sport
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding: not rly
005.A Good Singer?: no, but i try LoL
006.A good Actor/Actress?: yes
007.A deep sleeper?: no
008.A Good Dancer?: so/so
009.Shy?: not really
010.Outgoing?: most of the time
011.A good storyteller?: ppl say I am
AM I...
1. Quiet or Loud?: can be both
2. Short or Tall?: ppl call me short...
3. Weird or Original?: heh...both
4. Nice or Mean?: nice
5. Friendly or Selfish?: friendly
6. Normal or "Special"?: you decide
7. Smart or Stupid?: smart...but blonde
8. Boring or Fun?: depends
5 things that attract me to the opposite sex:
1. eyes
2. smile
3. personality
4. sense of humor
5. honesty
Life throws things at you, your choice is what to do with the things you catch...Will you drop them and complain about how hard it is or will you catch them and learn from them? Its your choice...
advice
me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl
You and your girl are close...so why does it matter that others are hitting on you? Usually people tend to go after what they cant have, in this case, you since you're not single. To let them down, the only thing you need to say is you have a girl you're happy with and dont want anyone else. Hope this helps,
JyNxiE
m/16 Hi, ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and a few weeks and her parents are, sorry to say, PISSING ME THE **** OFF. They wont EVER let her see me but maybe 1 every two weeks or so, and it kills me cause i never get ANY alone time with her, and the time we do get to spend together is with friends cause her parents wont let her over to my house alone. Anyone know of anything I can do to get their parents to let her do somthing, or anything i can tell my girl to say? help please!
Hmm...kinda reminds me of the problem my bf and I have with my parents...But, get her parents to trust you. If they already do, maybe they're thinking about the mistakes they made when her age and are trying to protect her from them. Personally, parents need to back off and let us make our own mistakes, but they don't feel that way sadly. Show her parents that you take good care of their daughter and that she'll be perfectly safe with you. Sometimes parents, especially mothers, are afraid to see their daughters growing up and just want to protect them for as long as they can. It's a tough situation, but maybe over time they'll losen up. Hope I helped,
JyNxiE
Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do?
Maybe you need a new group of friends who will let you be yourself, instead of what they expect you to be. You have every right to turn someone down if you dont like them. The relationship wont last if you're with someone you dont like. If you dont want to get new friends, then just ignore these. After a while they should see that you're not like them and leave you alone, hopefully. Kinda off topic, but your friends may be insecure about themselves if they go out with so many guys. Maybe they're trying to prove that they're wanted. *shrugs* I dont knwo, just something to think about.
JyNxiE
well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
Forget your friends opinions...they shouldnt stop you if you really like this guy. Also, it may be good that you two are different. Opposites attract, right?
JyNxiE
Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
Crushed
From the sound of things I'd say he either likes you alot or just thinks of you as a best friend. You should ask him, that will eliminate all the "what if's" and "does he like me or not" questions. The direct aproach always works.
JyNxiE
OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.
and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.
Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!
*confused chic*
I'd say watch him when you guys flirt. Watch for eye contact and such. Or ask some of his friends if he's mentioned anything about you or not. Or the all time direct approach works...suggest the two of you going somewhere together and see where it goes.