I love to help people. I would love to give you all advice but first you have to ask me a question!!!!!!!!!!! I might just be 13 but I do have a lot of wisdom because wierd and common things happen to me all the time. I know you are thinking that i am not good enough but if you ask a question and don't like the answer you get just email me and I will try to improve. Thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, I am from Spokane, WA and am a girl (duh)AND YOU CAN TELL ME ANYTHING. I want to become a fashion designer but it isn't just because it sounds cool but because i love to be unique and I know everything about fashion. Sure, go ahead, ask me something and you will be satisfied!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Weekly Advie
Topic: Colors
Try to put complimentary colors together when you are layering, such as:
Pink-Lime Green
Purple-Yellow
Blue-Orange
Red-Green
White-Black
I get lots of compliments when i wear colors like that because they look so good together
That is my weekly advice. Hope it helps!!!!!
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13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!! (link)
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You are lucky to not have anyone in your family die. If you like her as a friend or more then a friend either way you should still say something sweet. I think that you should tell her you are supporting her she will most likely like that. I am a girl and when my grandpa died i had a friend just like you and he said that and i felt better about everything like everyone really was supporting me and that is very important. Come up with maybe something else to say but unless she has a real big sense of humor then don't try to cheer her up with jokes or stories. She just needs time. Hope that helped if so or if not email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com so i know what i am doing right or am really good at!!!!!!
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