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Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.

Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.

Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.

SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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I need to know if anybody is really good at biology? I am struggelling nad could use some help. (link)
Yes, I am pretty good at biology, so whats the problem are you having. Please let me know the grade as well.


do girls realy think those lame polo collar shirts are hott??? i mean do they like atract females because i think there lame as hell and i would never wear one... well maby depending on the results to the question... (link)
Dear clothes,

No they aren't mean't to attract woman more than a regular shirts. But it is said a female feels more comfortable confronting a male who is wearing a button up shirt rather than a regular T-shirt.

Chris


Is it good or bad to be sensitive? (link)
Its good. The trick to that question is when is it time to be sensitive and not. Like Sensitive doesn't mean cry at movies or make you look weak (the only word I could think of at the moment). A smart person would realize that sensitive is just a way of acting in various situations. But its ok not to be sensitive all the times and if this is about women, a majority would agree. Because according to my experience women like to have a man sensitive to them, their feelings who the are as a woman. But they like a guy who is opposite when he needs to be.

Chris


@ my school, the hot guys only like the "popular clique" girls, i.e. the hot, snobby, breasty, bitchy, flunking, preppy, cool girls. i want to be noticed liked. i dont want to be one of them to be noticed and liked though. HELP! (link)
Yea I used to be part of the popular group when I was mid school up, and girls always talked about the female friends. There are many ways, make yourself noticed like what can you do that they can't, talk with them would be the best first start. Or you do what a girl did to me, first she took my computer in class so I noticed her, and then one day she took my seat, and so forth. She did little things for a few weeks because I would always say something and she would talk with me so we started dating after that.

Cspinoza1


wut is a CUNT mean????? iv heard it before buti wasnt sure help!!! (link)
Cunt=Vagina=pussy=kitty=box=beaver=cherry pie

These are all terminology for a feamles vagina.

Cspinoza


I'm the one that works at the pizza place and was nervous that nobody liked me and was worrying about losing weight. This is to all the columnist who answered my previous questions: Yesterday a male co-worker came up to me and asked me to go into a back area with him because he wanted to ask me a question. Well, I had no idea what was up and then he showed me instructions for a pregancy test and asked me what does two lines mean verses one line, because he was not sure how to read it. I told him two lines means pregnant even if one is very light. I wonder why he was asking me? I assume he thought his girlfriend or spouse was pregnant or he could've been asking for a female freind who was too embarrased to ask me herself. I was curious, but I didn't ask any questions except, "Is there good news?" in a light-hearted joking way, and he said "It's not for me, I was just wondering." Or something like that. He told me not to tell anyone and I said "I won't." So I think this must mean that people there like me and trust me. I haven't told anyone, and I don't think this counts because it's anonymous and I could be anyone talking about anyone at a pizza place anywhere. I just wanted to let you all know that I feel much better working there knowing that they would trust me with something like that. I have a feeling the guy and a girl there are involved, but I don't know, and I'm not going to say anything, just mind my own business. Has anyone else been in a situation like this where they blabbed and got in trouble? Just curious. I'm not the gossipy type, and I hardly know these people, so it's not that difficult. If they were really close friends, or family, that could be harder, but in that case, it's even more important to keep a secret, unless it's something that is dangerous to the individual, and you have to tell for their own good. Any stories anyone would like to share? (link)
I won't share any particular moments when this has happened to be because when I say I will not tell someone, its means I will take it to my grave. But yes I have been in your situation and it kind of follows something I have always said "Sometimes its easier to go to a stranger rather than someone you know". And it doesn't mean a complete stranger it just mean someone you don't know to well. And yes people do probably like you and trust you, I could see no other reason why he would ask you because that is something one rarely asks another person, or maybe a kind of test.

Cspinoza1


i have to do this 8th grade science project
im doing a question which diffrent kinds of fabric burns the fastest out of wool,silk, linen and polyester? is that a good question? i also need help on it.. wut i was going to do was lay out the fabric in myu drivway separtly then lite the first oen with a match and time it then the same with the other 3 do you think this is a good idea?? if not give me some other questions i can ask and do a report on (link)
Well you could do a better project, but for what you have now, go into the primary purpose for choosing frabric burning.

Say: For my science project I have decided to conduct a series of experiements on the igniton of various fabrics which are wool, silk, linen, and polyester. The reason for conducting this experiment is to observe how each fabric reacts to the fire and to see which fabric is less flamable or can with stand the fire long enough to possible be out. My hypothesis is (what ever you think it is).

I hope this helped you! Tell me if it did

Chris


i really really want to be popular in school!! i want more than anything to be in the popular group and everytime i try i get even nerdier!! what can i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!


WANNA BE (link)
Wanna be-

Take it from someone who was in the popular group since the 2nd grade, its not worth it. its nothing like you think it is and normally have have to be able to contribute to the group in many ways. Like I DJed at the hottest Club in my state since I was in 9th grade, I had hook ups to all the concerts, movies, signings. I also could get anyone into a recording studio or meet an agent. Its a vicious group we talk behind each others backs and people who aren't popular as well. People in the poular group have to act a certain way like there is the pretty girl who sleeps around, the guy who can get you drugs, people like me who could do anything and get you anything, and people who were jocks and cheerleaders and biggest stoners. The best thing to do is be yourself and be happy you have real friends because after high school none of it matters no one cares who you were and what you did, your jsut another person. But if you are desperet I guess there are many things to can do. Get a cool job for one, everyone loves people who can get them discounts and hook ups. Seconds be a trendie know the fashion of what is cool and know music because in the cool group there is no saying "oh I listen to Hilary Duff" (sorry no need to offend if you do because this kids believe they are above anything that could hurt them by admitance). And if your a girl learn to be Bitch but not a rude one, at least until your in the group, if a male be a jock and you will be fine. And the last make sure you can look like a really hot person.

Cspinoza1


what are caffeines effects on the body? (link)
Just raises your awareness. Such as drinking a cup of coffee may make people feel more awake, alert, and alive. But some people such as myself a cup of coffe calms me down. But a majority of people it wakens the body allowing them to become more active.

Cspinoza1


thanku very much for taking time to advice me,i have decided that now for 1yr i will give all my exams score brilliantly in my p.g. exams,than my parents would be happy,and if i just run after my sports now than being the only son of doctors parents they will feel tense and spoil their health,and than if its in my destiny than i would get a chance,or else its for me that i contribute more to the society than just being a sportsman,
probably then i could do research in treating cancer in which ihave an interest since my aunt passed away because of it .this is the only way i think i can be happy everyday rather than being so tense that u stop enjoying life please advice whether i have taken the correct decision according too so many circumctances that one has to look into.thanku very much (link)
Well your heart is in the right place I willtell you that. But what makes you happy? It sounds that you are more worried about what your parents are going to think of you if you do sports. Your parents want you to be happy that something we forget, but its up to you to make the correct decision. And also you say you want to go into the field that deals with Cancer, and you sayd because your aunt died of it (sorry to hear). Is that the only reason why or do you feel the need to learn more and want the thrive in that field? There are many factors that must be taken into accountin your situation. Just do what you love, then the rest of your life will fall into place.

Cspinoza1


See, I am in the seventh grade and I have alot of enemies . Like some people say and talk behind my back . See, I'm not popular and I don't want to be because, there are a bunch of girls and boys talking behind each others backs . See those people joke on me . I know I shouldn't respond, but I do . What are they intimidated by me or is it something wrong with me ? They say that I'm smart but I always want more for myself and I expect others to want whats best for them . I really don't care what the others want , I care about what I want . I am nice to those I don't even like . Why are they this way towards me ? What have I done to the girls and guys at my school? I speak my mind and they try to persecute you for this . Don't you just hate it ? Peace .






































































































































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Well naturally everyone has an enemy. And if you want some advice don't be popular, I'm ashamed to admit this but I will. In middle school and High school I was one of the most popular people. But I Never gave into the whole I'm better than everyone. And its true they suck they talk about everyone and about each other, they are rude and do nothing but make fun of each other. And by getting angry and letting it to you it shows you care about what they thing. Because honestly your feelings can't get hurt if you don't care. So practice letting it role off your back, or just fight fire with fire (something I don't suggest) or just confront them.

Cspinoza1


At first, this problem seems simple. In my Journalism class, we have a Journalism website. A girl in the class had 5 weeks to write her column. At the very last minute, she asks someone to write it for her. Simple solution for me, right? Just rat her out! Wrong. The girl who wrote the column for the slacker happens to be one of my friends--I sit next to her every day at lunch. What do I do? Do I rat her out, or just keep my peace? (link)
Actually you can rat the person for taking credit but make sure your name will not be given. And the person that actually wrote the article cannot get into much trouble just they can ask her why she did it. Honestly I would just tell and your not being a rat because your doing whats right. She had 5 weeks to weite the article thatsa plenty of time. But at the same time its a small deal to you. SO just think of all the possible senarios. If its something thats not to big to you or your friend let it go. But if it bothers your friend and you enought, just tell that the girl didn't write the article.

Cspinoza1


i really want these shoes that so cool and my mom wont get them for me how can i convince her to get them before monday april 13th 2004 (link)
Well you can try explaining the dire need of the shoes and what is so important about them and need them. And second have you wondered why your mother won't get them for you? Naturally either parents say no because they don't think you need another pair of shoes, or they cannot afford them.

Cspinoza


Hey im a boy and 13 so theres a girl i like and she likes me. And im tryin to find a way to ask her out, because she doesnt have any messengers i dont think and im to shy to ask her on the phone or in person.What do i do?

-confused (link)
Dude just ask her even if your shy. For example your at a dance, you are shy but you ask a girl to dance and then you being to ask more females to dance because not only is it fun but because you realize you have nothing to lose. In your case your on the up and up because she does like you and you have a good chance that she might say yes to a date, so set aside the shyness and let it fly.

Cspinoza1


how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore.... (link)
The best way to stop being called gay is either confront, or let it roll off your back. If you let it show that it bothers you your easy prey so just chill, or mkae it extremely apparent you like females.

Chris


Hey I'm writing an article for the Manchester Enterprise, and I need help on how to convince my community that the teens need Laurel Creek Elementary for a safe haven to hang at. Can you please help me?
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The article you are writing need a lot of information providing the safety that it provides that no other place can. Plus it would be good to do a few interveiws for the teenagers on what they think about it and some informaqtion from adults, primarily concerned adults for they will make your article seem more lively because concerned parents in this situation have more to say.

Chris

hope this helped


ok im in 8th grade but nxt yeari will be going into highschool and im so scared. the school im going to has over 2,000 kids. im really scared of not finding my class cuz its such a big school and im scared of all the boys that will hit on me
please please please help (link)
Trust me there is nothing to be scared of. Look at me I started high school when i was 12 and graduated when I was 16 I was scared until I went and found out there was nothing to be scared of. You make friends, and relationships are great to experience. SO trust me you will be fine next year just be confident and everything will work out


at my school dance i was dancing with this guy named sean he is really nice then we started to freak dance. i knw that is worng but i think he likes me also does he? (link)
Just because a guy freak dances with you it doesn't mean he likes you.l

Cspinoza1


At school, there is always someone who makes fun of me.. Because of how I dress and how I act, and just because I like a certains tyle of music.
This kid always says you're a freak, and whyd o you ahve black nails, and one kid said that I should dress like this, because its cool, not hwo I dress, and I was liek whys hould it matter how I dress... sheesh, and he just kept saying it and syaing it.. and I dont have a question, Im sorry.. unless you guys wanna know, i cana dd some things.. Just im me or e-mail me! (link)
Just be yourself I was the same way at the beginning of my high school years. I wore black, always listened to crazy music I likes, wore a trench coat kombat boots and this was to a private school I think you can get how hard that is. So just be yourself I never changed for people I changed because I wanted to. But that took a nother 2 years to do.

Cspinoza1


Ok, here it goes....

There is this kid, I dont know his name, and I know barely anythign about him, but to me he seems like a really nice person on how he acts with other people, and he is realllly cute, and they just switched our classes around because its half of the year,a nd he ended up in my class!! And Im so happy, but I mean I dont know him, and I dont think he will talk to me... I just dont know what to expect from him...
I just felt like letting it all out...

Have any comments? (link)
Talk to him, it couldd't hurt, you seem curious so get in there and find out if your assumptions are correct. ANd don't be shy because that will affect you in the furure.

EX: In my psychology 105 course I sit next to a 32 year old woman who is shy, later in the course we have to stand up and present a topic she dropped the course because she is that shy when it comes to people.

Hope this helped

Cspinoza1




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