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Q: There is this end of the year graudation dance on June 9th. A lot of people have dates, and I really want one. Can you think of anyway that I could get a date? I talk to guys and stuff. But how do I put myself out there and show them that I wanna go with someone?

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You shouldn't "put yourself out there", because some people may just think that its desperate. But, you can probably hint around to some of the people who you may want to go with. If you don't have a date, don't sweat it, alot of people go without dates and have a better time then those who DO have dates. You know why? Dating=Drama.

Q: Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

Don't worry about what your friends say, go with what YOU want to do. I would go out with Chris, since Steven seems to not be working out. Besta Luck

Q: ok ive had a crush on this guy since school started and we were working on a project togetherand he is always trying to comfort me when im crying and crap.but he was ticking me off so i freaked out and said why do you hate me soo much and he said i dont hate you im tying to help you improve and ive had some bad runin with guys and i wasnt having a good day and having a lot of memories and i toatally freaked out and said you dont want to help me you just want to hurt me.h thinks im a toatal freak what can i do to make him like me again?

Just tell him you were having a bad day and you flipped out on him for no reason. (or not a very good reason). I think you should just be upfront about it, he would like to hear it from your mouth rather than anyone else's. Besta Luck

Q: people at school are starting to say i smell...
i dont understand, i wear deodorant and i wash with soap when im in the shower...i use shampoo and conditioner too so i cant think of what it could be. they have been saying this for a while and i used to think that they said it just to make me feel bad and it is starting to hurt my feelings...what can i do to smell better?

Maybe you should use a different deodorant, wear body spray and shower daily. If they still talk about you, ask someone (a friend or family member) who will tell you exactly WHAT stinks. Besta Luck

Q: I have been pretty depressed. I dont know why. On the weekends I pretty much just go to work from 11-4, come home, watch tv, do homework, eat and maybe get online or talk on the phone and then do it again the next day. My parents dont like me going out too much. Then on weekdays I go to school from 7:55-2:15, stay after school sometimes till 4 or just go straight home. Or if I can I get outta school and stay after till 4 call my bf n hang out w him till 8. I just needa know whats going on, like why am I go DEPRESSED n how can I get over it?

You may be depressed because your life is kind of scheduled. Try to do something interesting on the weekends or go out shopping or go see a movie with your bf. Besta Luck

Q: there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?

He probably is embarrassed to be seen with you. Or maybe he just isn't ready for people to think he is ready to settle down. Talk to him about it. It doesn't matter how hot someone is, if they don't want to be seen with you, there's no purpose in going out with him. Besta Luck

Q: ok well mi dating my bf for the fourth time and i love him very much. But everyone thinks he's cheatin on me cause he puts up some big front like he's a big flirt and hard core rocker. But really he's not and he's really sweet and kind. Though my friends don't see this and they think he's a jerk.So know there all not getting along and i just want them to see that he's really not a jerk. What do i do?

Try going to the movies on a double date with a couple of your friends. Or you could always explain to him that none of your friends like him and it bugs you when he acts like a flirt. Besta Luck

Q: My teachers are really mad cause I miss a lot of school because Im always sick. My mom is a smoker and i always get strep and other respitory illnesses. I always make up the frickin homewrok I miss and I always pass the tests and stuff. Im a pretty good student for a 15 yr old that wud rather make out with Bin Laden then go to school. Today i went to school and went through all of my classes. When I got home my dad told me they wanted me to go to saturday school, a place they send bad kids to make up work like if they dont do their homework. I made up all the work from the last time I was absent, and none of the teachers told me about it today. Im really mad and dont know wut to do. Its for three hours tomorrow and starts at 8 30 am. I recently started a petition to end a class that a lot of people dont need called CAI, I was wondering if that might be a reason why all of a sudden I have to go to that stupid thing. SOrry if it doesnt make any sense lol... i like answering questions much more than asking them.

THANX!... I guess I rate high *shrugs* and i'll ignore bitchy ppl. l8r

Lol...hey Nikki (I think this is you anyways). But making out with Bin Laden? Eugh. I think you should just play sick and don't go to the school. I mean, you make up all your work and everything, I don't really see the big deal. I would still go through with the petition, alotta good things can come from it. Besta Luck

Q: ok well when i was younger i had an agent and i did small tv things, and i remember it taking up a lot of my time. ITs been awhile since i have done n e thing involving tv and broadway, and now my dad thinks its a good time to start up again. I have been re hired and everything but when i talked to my agent she says i would probably have to quit a lot of my activites. I am involved with a lot of things right now and i dont no if its the best for me to do this. I really want to act right now and do this again but i dont want to regret it in the long run.

Plex Help

I wouldn't start up acting just yet. Give yourself some more time to stop all the other activities you are doing. Or, maybe just wait until you think you are ready to do it. You said it yourself: You don't want to regret it in the long run. Besta Luck

Q: im a 15 year old girl, and there is this hot senior guy that i have a big crush on. he has all the characteristcs i look for in a guy, and i have been in love with him for a long time. ive asked him to the dance, and he said yes. however, he gives me a lot of mixed signals, saying that underclassmen and senior relationships are bad, while also saying that he would love to go to the dance with me and that he would have a hella good time with me. how do i know for sure if hes interested in me or not?

I think he is just trying to use you. He even said relationships are bad, and he would have a "good" time with you. Put the pieces together yourself and don't date him. Besta Luck

Q: my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do?

I think that you should either let it go, since the teacher will eventually realize what is happening, or you could talk to them. If you don't want them to find out you told on them, tell the teacher after class or something and tell her not to tell it was you. Best of Luck!

Q: ok theres this guy lets call him Brandon that i go to school with. Well ive had a crush on brandon for like a couple days now and up until like january he would never say anything but then we started talking little by little and by february we have been talking alot but besides that..

Hes always talking to me now whenever he comes around hes like "whats up Melissa" and stuff like that and always compliments like "you look hot today or that outfit is hot." When im around a group of people he always talks to me first and doesnt really say anything to the other people except maybe hi and then talk to me or leave. Today he stole my agenda book thingy at lunch and hes like you have to kiss me to get it back and im like no and he grabbed my ass. I know thats pretty much what every guy does but do you think he likes me? sorry for it being long ill rate 5's to anyone who answers!! THANKS!

It's either that he is a playa (check with his crew to find out if he is or not) or he obviously likes you. Since you like him too, ask him out. Besta Luck

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