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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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i just cant take this apartment we live on. i cant do laundry in the laundry room outside because the dogs around the apartment scares me and when i tell the owners they are pissed off at me. they dont get me. i have no rights anyway cause they pay rent. i think the guy i told about the dog moved out cause of me. i hate him i was just telling him cause i didnt want to cause a scene being scared. the people now hates me here. i am so mad.
If there is a question here, I am assuming it's how to deal with this apartment situation. When you live in an apartment, you have to deal with annoying, red-neck neighbors. That's just how it is. The best bet is to keep a straight and calm face through it all.
Let your neighbors know nicely that you are frightened of their dogs, and would appreciate it if they would either keep them inside, or tie them up when you go to do your laundry. If you ask, and the dog bites you anyways, most likely you can sue and get a shit load of money. So try looking at the bright side of things.
I am not even sure why they have dogs, most of the time, apartments don't allow pets. Maybe talk to a manager about that. Just remember, if you are polite, usually people will be polite back.
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i know how to make hearts(&heart) but how do i make stars?
I'm not sure how to make a star the same way you make the hearts (& hearts ; ) But you may be able to go to Micrsoft word, insert symbol, a choose the star. Then you can try to copy it onto wherever you are wanting it to go. But i'm not sure what the chances of that working are.
Sorry =/
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i was wondering do girls cum?
ive heard about it in movies but what happens so they do cum
Yes.
When a girl has an orgasm, she becomes extrememly lubricated. (As the person below me said)
And also as the person below me said, you can "squirt" too. But it's much less common.
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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.
Are you being serious? Just out of curiosity, why on earth would you get those guys to do that? I mean, honestly! What was the point in that?
I think you are a bitch, and this boy deserves a lot better than you. Even you really do care for him, and you do love him, then stop being a dumbass, and learn what a relationship is all about. (And yes, that does involve no kissing random girls, getting random guys to call him about your kissing, and breaking his heart everytime you get a chance).
If you don't want to lose him, stop pusing him away.
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1. When my boyfriend sucks on my nipples, it really tickles, it does not feel good at all; not even when he plays with them with his fingers or anything, does anyone else experience this? I love the feeling where he would be kissing them and everything, but it just tickles a lot (I can't stand it.)
2. My vagina kind of smells. I wash down there and everything, but my whole life it just naturally smells bad, is there anyway I can fix this without douching or using feminine spray? (Would it help if I used hand soap down there) or does every girl just naturally smell bad, because in the past when I have given handjobs and stuff, penises have no scent, so is it just me or is it every girl that has some sort of scent?
1.Some people just don't respond to certain things. You don't respond to nipple stimualtion, and there is nothing wrong with that. Let your boyfrend know that he can play with them if he likes it, but it just don't turn you on. He shouldn't be mad about it, because it isn't his or your fault.
2.Every girl has a scent. It isn't neccessarily a bad scent, but it does have a smell. You shouldn't use hand soap. That will end up giving you a nasty infection.
I'm really prone to UTIs & yeast infections, and my Gynocologist told me to use non-scented soap. She said to wash around the area, but not to wash inside of the vagina. Your vagina has natural bacteria that keeps you clean. When you use soap up there, not only are you killing bad bacteria, but you are killing your good bacteria that helps keep you clean too.
When your vagina is trapped up in underwear and pants all day, the area traps sweat, and makes the area have an odor. It happens, to everyone. If you want, you can use feminine wipes maybe once a day, if you feel you need too. You don't wipe inside of your vagina, just around the area, and on top of it. That should keep the gross scent away. If you start experiencing yeast infections or other problems though, stop using the wipes.
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This is how mybelly button piercings been doing:
Day 1-2: Red, tender, top is crusted
Day 3-5: Top still crusted, no longer tender, pus comes out
Day 6: Top crust comes off so it looks kinda healed becuase its smooth
Day 7-8: Still puses and occasionally crusts, but crust falls off real easily
Day 9-10: REDDER. I though that it had been getting much better, but turns out, it got worse? I think... Im worried
I also think it'll be rejected because it looks like its migrating.
I dont know what to do! I dont want it to migrate out. Also, what can I do to make it NOT red?
What have you been cleaning it with? You should clean it with antibacterial soap in the shower. You should NEVER touch it, unless you are in the shower cleaning it. Be sure to clean it thoroughly too.
The first two days sound pretty normal. Redness and tenderness is to be expected. However it shouldn't be pussing. That's a big sign of an infection. You should call whoever pierced you, and tell them what you are experiencing. Don't take the piercing out regardless of whether it gets worse or not. If puss gets blocked inside a closed piercing, it can become an abscess which can be very painful and may require surgical removal.
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Are friends with benefits really that bad?
This kid Dillon wants to have sex with me but doesnt like me as a girlfriend...If I have sex with him is it such a bad thing?
"Are friends with benefits really that bad?"
Do you think it's bad? All that matters is what you think. Just keep in mind, a lot of people do think it's bad, so if you are willing to have sex just to be having sex, be prepared to be called some not-so-nice names.
If you have sex with him [I think] you obviously don't have any morals.(As someone below me said)
It's really your choice whether or not you have sex with him.
I think it's bad. I'm sure many people on this site thinks it's bad. The question is, do you?
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I have decided that I want to stay a virgin until I'm married. My virginity is special to me. I've gone out with a lot of guys and they all end up wanting to be touchy and I'm just not into that. I don't want to be used. I want to be pure and be able to show my husband (when I actually get married, of course) that he really is a special person and that I cared enough to wait for a long time for him.
My problem is that I don't really know how to tell a guy that I refuse to have sex. I don't want to outright say I want to stay a virgin or that I'm keeping my virginity for my wedding night. That just feels too PERSONAL to me and the only time I would tell somebody is if we were in a serious relationship together and he needed to know.
I'm pretty young and I'm afraid to just say no and leave it at that, I guess. Even if I told a guy that I was waiting for marriage I think they'd think I was joking because of me being so young.
I guess my question is...
How do I tell a guy that I don't want to have sex without giving out too much personal details as to why?
You just tell that guy you don't want to have sex. You don't owe any person an explanation about why you won't have sex. That is YOUR businses and it's at your discretion to tell and not tell anyone you please.
If someone wants an explanation, tell them you aren't ready to have sex, and for them not to pressure you into it.
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How can u get Weed out of your system fast?
To get rid of ALL traces of THC is near impossible. But it is possible to get some of it out of your system faster than not doing anything.
1.Drinking a ton of water is something i've heard that works. I mean, more water than you could ever imagine yourself drinking in a million years. It makes you pee a lot, so it will flush out your system.
2.I seen on a movie one time (hence, I don't know how reliable it was) that drinking a little bit of vinegar helps.
3.(I pulled this from the internet)
"The energy drink, Monster helps b/c of the vitamins and the niacin in it."
Not sure if it's true or not, but it can't hurt.
4.This also has a few ideas to help:
http://www.drugsandbooze.com/showthread.php?t=4758
By the way, not smoking marijuana is a much easier way to make sure you don't have to go through all this crap. =]
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where can you work at the age of 15 in roseville, ca.
95747..
please help me or tell me where i could go to find out
You will need a work permit to work at 15.
The chances of you finding work at your age is low. Your best bet is McDonalds, or another fast food restaurant.
MAYBE a local flower or barber shop. Like, sweeping and cleaning.
You really won't have a lot of options, so you can't be picky.
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I'm 13 and I think I have just started my period. I have a little bit of redish discharge. I'm just not for sure and need a little advice.
It's a little scary at first, but know it's normal and every girl in the world is going through it too.
First you need to tell your mom you think you just started your period. Then get yourself a pad from under the sink & put it in your underwear.
If you get cramps, ask your mom to buy some Midol, and lay down with a heating pad on your stomach until the cramps lighten up. Also, stay away from greasy foods and a lot of caffeine while you are on your period. It messes with your stomach, and makes you feel terrible.
Good Luck =]
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I plan on going to college for Nursing.
Classes I've taken:
All Honors English, Honors History, Honors French, and 1 yr of Honors Latin.
Maths: Algebra 1, 2, and Geometry..this next year i'm taking College Algebra (not college level, that's just the name)
Sciences:
Physical Science= A overall grade
Biology 1= A overall grade
Biology 2= A overall grade
Chemistry= B+ Overall grade
Soon, I'm taking AP Bio (college level and college credits) and I'm also taking Anatomy & Physiology.
I have a lot of leadership experience, being in JROTC, National Honors Society, Youth Court, and other minor clubs.
Do you guys think that I would get a scholarship for Nursing? I know it's really competitive, but I'd like to know.
Also, my GPA is a 3.3 out of a 4.0 (it wasnt updated the last time i checked it which was december, but i'll know the updated one soon, and it'll still be around that level) I haven't taken any easy classes, either..like you know the fun classes. So are my chances good?
Also, where is a great place to go for loans? I really need help on the money side of college, so any help would be GREAT! thank you all so much!
Different schools and areas have different scholarship programs. I think your chances of getting a couple scholarships is awesome. You've got a good GPA, and you are active in clubs.
You need to talk to your guidance councelor at school. She can get you applications for different scholarships you qualify for, and she can explain everything you may want to know.
You can get loans with help from your parents at the bank, but usually people get student loans from the college. Again, that's something you will want to discuss with your guidance councelor, or student advisor in college.
If you have a vocational school near you, you should definitely take the Nursing program if it's not too late. It's hardwork, but you can leave highschool being an LPN. Then you can continue your education further if you wish to be an RN or something higher. It's also a hell of a lot cheaper than doing it all in college.
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soo i just bought the cutest purple pants..they are really confortable but i dont know what to wear on top..
any ideas?
:)
A white top for sure. A purple shirt along with purple pants is to much. Any other color would look dumb. Definitely white. =]
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i got all of my classes moved to the next level so they are harder and more work. im pretty smart i guess but im just not motivated to do homework, i pick and choose what to do and i afraid its gonna hurt me this year. after school i relax, i come home and sit in my bed and read for a little while and then its dinner and before i know it its time to go to bed and thats when i do my homework...
how can i get myself to do it, i need to have a time to get it done but im to tired and then the night is goneee
I used to be just like that. I would always put my homework off, because I had something better to do. Like spend time with my boyfriend, watch TV, read, etc. And what would end up happening was that I wouldn't do it, and I would have to rush through it at school, and I would always get bad grades.
But this summer, I realized that this was my senior year and I needed to buckle down if I wanted to get into college and find a good job. You do too. So, I motivate myself every evening to do my homework so i'll have good grades. Regardless of whether my boyfriend is at my house, I do my homework and take my time. If something is on TV that I want to see, I record it so I can watch it later.
I know that after school you just want to relax, but if you do your homework as soon as you walk through the door, then it's over and done with and you have the rest of the night to watch tv, read, eat, or whatever you want to do.
Homework should never take more than an hour if you concentrate really hard. So if you get out of school at say, 3:30- Go home, change, have a snack or get something to drink, and start on your homework. Most of the time you should be done with your homework by 4:30, maybe 5 if you have a lot. It's best to go ahead and do it when you get home, because everything is still fresh in your mind. You can watch TV until dinner is ready, and after dinner you can read until bedtime. You don't have to keep to a strict schedule, or even a loose one. That was just an idea you may like. The only thing you really need to schedule is homework right after you get home. You're more likely to do it if you do it right away.
Good luck and I hope you get your priorities straight =]
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Ok, so it's my senior year, and I need to take all of the classes that I'm signed up for in order to graduate with honors, but there's a pretty big chance that there won't be room in some of them. So regardless of the fact that it's my senior year, I'm going to transfer schools if I don't get into some of my classes, and I was wondering what I have to do exactly in order to transfer? Cause my mom won't know, and I don't want to ask the school before I even know if I'm going to.
Thanks :]
It's ok to ask your school. They will know better than anyone else what you need to do. You need to talk to your guidance councelor. She will give you all the information you need on the classes you need to take, and how to transfer if neccessary. =]
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Me and my friends want to go to a clothing store and pretend to be manakins, hide in the clothing circle-racks and gerarally bug, scare, and annoy people. What whe want to have reallt scary make-up on and goth clothes and stuff but we are really bad at putting on make-up. Is there any where we can go and get the gothich dark dark make-up like professionally done??? If so; What is the price and place???
Sounds...annoying.
It really would bug, scare, and annoy me.
Don't get it professionally done. That's a waste of time and money. Gothic makeup doesn't have to look perfect. It's just..black. Have fun with it.
If you want all black clothes, accessories, etc. Go to the Mall and visit Spencers or Hot Topic. They have a website to that you can go to:
http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/index.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442186367&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028382&bmUID=1220191044587
http://www.spencersonline.com/?s_cid=spencers&utm_campaign=GG&gclid=CNvyg5qeuJUCFQOcFQod3hoFQA
Have fun..
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what would happen if you were walking on a street drunk but underage? would you get arrested? or have to go to court?
If you walk through the streets drunk, it doesn't matter if you are underage, you'll still get arrested for drinking in public. If you were underage, you would probably get in more trouble, by your parents at the very least.
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So I'm about to have sex with my boyfriend who is 16. We have been dating for about a year. I am a f/15. We love eachother very much and I'm excited/nervous to do it; but, I am also very self conscious. I mean, I have hair in places, and pimples or white dots on my nipples? What do I do, they won't go away? Plus, I'm not even sure what to do when we are about to do it or attempting. HELP PLEASE.
The white dots on your nipples are normal. Everyone has them. Everyone also has hair. That's normal too.
Of course you are exited/nervous. It's a very exiting and nerve wrecking thing. The main thing you need to understand is that your boyfriend loves you. He's not going to care if you have a few flaws on you. Everyone does. Just relax, and enjoy yourself.
Like someone below said, it's a learned behavior. The first time isn't going to go well, i'm sure. It will be awkward, but since you are both new to this, it will be a special experience to laugh about later. =]
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Hey guys, I'm a senior in HS and I have been thinking about cheering in college. Overall I say I'm a pretty damn good cheerleader. I'm always the one to start the spiriting on the sidelines and I have the best jumps on the squad. I have good arm placements and I learn cheers and dances pretty fast. The only thing is I'm not the great on my faces, I smile, but I don't make good face expressions. I'm cheering the in Capital one bowl and the pro bowl in the coming months. I can tumble, but getting more tricks. I have a standing back hand spring, round off back hand springs, sometimes I will do three, just depends in I feel like I can. I have my round off back tuck, and I am currently working on my standing back tuck. So I think I have the skills to be a college cheerleader.
Can anyone who has cheered in college or am currently tell me the steps I need to take to make my wish come true? Thank you!
Whether or not you make the team, and the requirements you need to make the team, all depends on what college you are wanting to cheer for.
For example, if you wanted to cheer for UK, you would most likely need a standing tuck, and probably a full. You would also need to know how to fly in partner stunts.
But if you wanted to cheer for a smaller college, like UVA-Wise (Near where I live) you wouldn't have to know how to tumble at all. Though it would help, it wouldn't be a requirement.
As long as you don't look bored on your face, not making crazy facials shouldn't keep you from making any team. I think you sound like an amazing cheerleader, and if you stay that confident during your tryouts, I don't see why you wouldn't make any team.
Be sure to keep practicing your tumbling. The better it is, the more likely you will make the team. Work on your facials too. They shouldn't be practiced and rehearsed, it should just come to you when your cheering for your team. Talk to the college you are wanting to attend and find out the requirements you will need. Then practice, practice, practice it! =]
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Okay so I'm 14 and a want a vibrator.
I picked out the one that I want and I have a bunch of those gift credit cards so i can buy it descretly. They ship it in a plain brown box with an unidentifiable label. What I'm worried about is if one of my parents find it, what do I say? I mean, I doubt my dad will find it because he's nearly never home, and my mom gets home later in the day, so I'll probably be getting the package. But seriously, WHAT IF SHE FINDS IT? what do i say? should i ask her about it beforehand, I mean I really really don't want to. But how would I even ask something about that? Don't tell me that I'm too young or anything, it's better than me finding the nearest manwhore eh?
If you're positive your parents won't get the package when it's delieverd, and have no way of it showing up on the computer or bills, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
Keep it hidden in your handbag, and always keep it near you. You can also buy discrete looking ones. You can buy some that looks ilke pens, or lipstick. All sorts of cool things.
If, by chance your parents do find it, you have 2 choices:
1.) Tell them the truth. You have impulses and urges, and you aren't ready to act on them with a person yet. They should be understanding.
2. Laugh about it. Tell them one of your friends gave it to you as a joke, and for them to not be so serious all the time =] Funny, right?
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