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So, Ive been with this guy for a few months now. He’s great, and I love him so much. He is my first boyfriend. Last year ,my mom found out about this, and we broke up for a while. Then we eventually got back together because we were in the same school. Im now back in keeping things private and suggested that we should just have an open relationship so that we can just figure out if this is really for us or not. The problem is, I don’t wanna hurt my mom anymore. She was really mad and hurt about us and she even thought about shutting me out from the family. I don’t want anyone to be in that mess anymore. I’m at a point where i regret everything. I should’ve just let him go long ago, but I didn’t. I was really invested in him and I thought that he was the one. But right now, it really seems bleak. We’re both young and I know we’ll meet more people but he doesn’t want to. He thinks I’’m the only one for him and my mom didn’t like him at all .What should i do?
I would respect your mother’s wishes she is your mother after all if you truly don’t want to hurt your mother anymore then don’t she doesn’t deserve to be hurt your relationship isn’t worth losing your mother family over at the end of the day when your relationship end’s your mother family is what you’ll have left you don’t want to take the risk of it truly getting to the point of you being shut out of your family and being left with nothing you don’t want to have to rebuild your relationship with your family gain their trust back right now you need to do what’s best for you since you regret everything and you could lose your family your best option is to end your relationship since thing’s seem bleak it isn’t fair to you or your boyfriend to keep your relationship private you have to realize that thing’s happen you can’t blame yourself be hard on yourself for you being really invested in your boyfriend it make’s sense i would end your relationship sooner rather than later before thing’s become even more crazier you don’t deserve the craziness when thing’s becoming worst can all be avoided
(Rating: 5) I have already talked with him, we decided to break up. You’re right. I feel so much at peace now. Thank you so much for your advice