sunshine1232's advice column

So basically. I just found out my father has malignant melanoma. It's a skin cancer. I have a sister and she tends to get EXTREMELY nervous for these kind of situation so I understand her feelings. She proceeds to text me today telling me she felt like crap about the situation and to top it off she was mad at me for calling her ungrateful to her child's father. They have been broken up for some time but she still seems to be attached and gets jealous every time he seems to try to move on. I have told her over and over that she is an ungrateful bitch because she truly is. The point is, she only knew about it because she went through my phone while I was sleeping. I honestly get where she is coming from but I feel like she was wrong for going through my phone.

Your sister has every right to be mad at you for you calling her ungrateful how can you expect her not to be? You wouldn’t like it if being called ungrateful was done to you nobody deserve’s to be called ungrateful especially by their own family member you’re her sister you’re her family you should be there for her especially now because your father’s health is declining she doesn’t need you calling her ungrateful during this time you owe her a apology how your sister act’s toward’s her child’s father is her business she is her own person you can’t control her you can’t control how she act’s what she does she’ll do what she want’s you can’t blame her for getting jealous if she’s still attached to her child’s father it make’s sense i agree with you her going through your phone while you slept was very wrong and low of her especially while you slept you weren’t aware of her going through your phone she didn’t respect you your privacy she invaded your privacy i’m sure she wouldn’t like it if someone looked through her phone it was done to her so it shouldn’t of happened to you

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(Rating: 1) honestly you just paid attention to one part of the story

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