So there's this really cute guy in my program and he was in 3 of my classes last year and from observing him in lecture he was always alone and very quiet. From time to time I caught him glancing at me and my friends (I feel like it's cause of my friend). He was also in one of my tutorial classes (the classes are up to 15 people) and whenever the teacher would ask him a question he would answer, it would be a very smart answer. So now I know he's quiet and smart. I want to get to know him but I'm scared to go up to him, he's caught my friend talking about him a few times but he doesn't say anything. I don't really know what to say to him cause I'm awkward and if you've seen my previous posts you'd know I lack a lot of confidence. Before I thought last school year he would glance at me because he thought I was cute but now I think he's been looking at my friend the whole time. Here's the reason, one time before lecture I was telling my friends a story about high school, I think I was pretty loud because he turned around and started smiling at me and then my friend was like "that guy just looked at you" I guess she put the idea in my head and I think he heard her say that too because after that he would look back sometimes but rarely. Then one day in the library we were handing something in, I was with two of my friends, so one of my friends walked by him first, he didn't do anything then my second friend (the one I'm always with let's call her Alex) walked by him second and his head turned following her, and I don't know if he watched me but I doubt it, ever since then I've been starting to think he's been looking at her. Now this school year he's in 2 of my classes, a random dude came up to him about the homework now they've been inseparable ever since (now it's gonna be harder to talk to him). Looking back maybe if I asked him about the homework we would've been friends. But anyways Alex doesn't know how to lower her voice every time he walks by /sits by us she always has to talk about him. "Hey look that's our best friend" or "he remind me of..." So I know he knows we talk about him, but anyways how should I approach him? Do you think he thinks Alex is cute or is this all in my head or is it because she talks about him that he looks at her?
Boy trouble is the hardest. I say just talk to him to really know. I would say hi since he is shy. Both of you can't be shy together lols. So i would just go up and talk to him if you really can't do it then go with the friend that you think he has an eye for that way you can do it together so you wont be so shy and also you can find out if he likes your friend by body language. Does he only look at her when he speaks does he get closer to her. Small things while also getting to know this boy and seeing if he is someone you want to become friends with or not. Trust me I am 22 about to be 23 and I would see guys that I believed were cute but then I get to know them and they were not my type.
Hope this advice helps you.
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Yes it helped im going to try to talk to him..
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