Razhie

"This is the true joy in life - being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances." --George Bernard Shaw

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My official name is Manda, but I've been Razhie for almost as long. I'm a 28 year old woman who didn't use to be half as confident or brazen as she is now.

My advice is pretty good, not always perfect and rarely censored.

I can read what is written. I cannot read your mind.

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Razhie. Advicenators Member Since: June 13, 2005. Answers: 5077. Visitors: 211514.

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The Question
so this girl at work she's been asking me to hangout with her she says since you go surfing let me go with you teach me how the sign that i can think of attraction is there so finally i got the nerve to ask her number waited about a week to call tuesday around 8.15pm called it ring at about 4times then i heard her talking then it just ended what is that all about waited a few minutes called again she didn't pick up what is that all about

The Answer
Who the hell knows?

She could be playing games. She also could be driving, or unavailable, or in a noisy place, or a shit ton of other things.

Don't wait a week when someone gives you their number. They will forget who the hell you are and your call will be intrusive and awkward instead of pleasant. You risk them not knowing who the hell you are. Maybe she is game playing - but if you are waiting a week to call someone - so are you. Don't do that.
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(Rating: 3) depends i work with this person i waited about a week i mean she's not going anywhere i mean don't you want her to think about you don't you wanna make her wonder about like wether your gonna call its like they call that challenge this one I've never heard of you calling her then on the 5 ring it just say call ended i did call some woman a couple days ago called her 1 then 20 minutes later she called back 2 left a message 2 tuesday got to see her mention it to her she said i didn't know who it was when i was listening to her message it sounds like she was at work but this she sounds like she's driving

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