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I am an extremely petite woman. I'm about 5"1, Asian and with tiny bone structure. Ballet dancer's build, basically. I wear 00 pants, size 2 dress and 32A bra and though not completely shapeless (I have long legs and a defined waistline), I am extremely skinny and fragile-looking.
There are literally no men I have ever met that are attracted to chicks who look anything close to me. Every single guy I know is obsessed with the blonde hair extensions, blue eyes and big boobs, and it feels like I'll never be able to compare. I suppose if I was persistent I could get someone to date me, but during the date I know they wouldn't be able to stop themselves from constantly stealing looks at the voluptuous all-American woman at the next table.
The Answer
Start online dating.
Seriously. You'll find plenty of men who want to have sex with you. You might even find it uncomfortable how many men want to have sex with you because you are petite and of Asian descent.
You might still find it difficult to find someone who wants to be in relationship with you - because that is a tough thing to find for everyone, even the voluptuous blondes - but if you think no one is attracted to you sexually, just jump into the online dating pool for a week or two. You'll find out that there are many, many men willing who want to spend time with you.
Just be safe about it.
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