Razhie

"This is the true joy in life - being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances." --George Bernard Shaw

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My official name is Manda, but I've been Razhie for almost as long. I'm a 28 year old woman who didn't use to be half as confident or brazen as she is now.

My advice is pretty good, not always perfect and rarely censored.

I can read what is written. I cannot read your mind.

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Razhie. Advicenators Member Since: June 13, 2005. Answers: 5077. Visitors: 211514.

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The Question
how should i respond to his threat? he said he would distribute the pics in the net and my school's facebook page. please help

The Answer
If you are a high school student, than not only is he making a criminal threat, what he is suggesting he would do is a criminal act. Posting explicit photos of an underage girl is the kind of thing that can get him on the sex offenders registry for life.

So tell him you'll call the police if those photos show up anywhere, and you'll show them the threats he made. And if he's very lucky, all that will happen in the police will talk to his parents and he's likely to get suspended from school for his actions against a fellow student. If he is less lucky, he could be looking at time in jail and a lifetime on the same list with rapists and pedophiles. However you look at it, it's just not worth it.

Then you should tell your parents or at least, another trusted adult in your life. You made a mistake, but that's okay. A lot of people make mistakes like this sometimes. You still deserve support and you should ask for it. Don't suffer alone with this fear and stress.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your excellent advice to my daughter. She is banned from all things internet related for a bit, so I am thanking you an her behalf. You probably knew this already, but this wasn't the whole story. My daughter blackmailed this girl into having lesbian relations with her or she would spread lies about her on the very same facebook page she mentioned here. The other girl had no interest at all in girls and tried to kill herself after she gave in to my daughter, which is how I found out about all this. The pictures in question were taken in self defense by my daughter's victim. I have gone through everything on her phone and laptop, which is how I found you. Compared to everything else I have found, I have to tell you that you are a serious credit to to the internet in general! I can't tell you the destruction this has caused in our family, and the other girl is unlikely to recover at all. How would you feel if you found out that the "rapists and pedophiles" that you mention turned out to be your daughter? Sorry for this long response. I hope you don't mind if I ask you a question once the shock of this subsides a little since there is nobody at all I can talk to about this. Thank you for taking the time to run this site!

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