20,f
Honestly,I'm really frustrated because of my looks. I'm 162 cm tall,65 kg,blonde hair,blue eyes. I am a bit chubby but I'm not fat. I tried dieting,exercising,Herbalife products but nothing helped. Yet I feel like I don't stand a chance next to all those pretty girls out there. I see them always having a boyfriend and nobody notices me. Recently I confessed to a guy on college and he said he likes me too but treats me as just a friend. He is a shy person and he said he needs time but I think that if you like someone you don't need time and excuses such as that. I think he is put off by my body. I have a good face,I dress nice,I know what suits me but I still have no one who likes me in a romantic way. I wish some guy would eventually look beyond my unflattering body. Are there still guys in the world who care about personality? I am caring,reliable,compassionate,funny,smart,helpful and many other good things but it seems it simply doesn't matter.
Girl im going to be so honest with you. I used to judge my size too. I am 150-155 weight goes up and down. But i use to cry cause guys i liked didnt want me they wanted some skinny model girl. I got to college and realized who cares about them. I became so proud of my body and my curves that i started to actually show them off. Yes i am going to start excising to lose some thighs because they are wayyy too big but i want to keep the thickness and curves i have. People and television and dolls used to portray to us these figures that were size 2-4 anything bigger was way to big. And i felt so insecure because of it. But you have to realize that not everyone is going to look that way and when they realized the negative impact it did to alot of people they started embracing the curvy woman and men. You are beautiful because GOD made you beautiful. Trust me when i say that you want to show confidence in yourself and your self esteem needs to be high and you need to walk around with a tall chin and hold your head up high. I did and i feel AMAZING.! I realized guys asking me out or not or liking me or not is not important because i know that God has someone out there for me. I need to learn to love myself first and what ever i don't love i will work hard to change it. Don't let guys bring your self worth and self esteem down because they didn't ask you out or dont like you. Trust me they not worth your time anyways. But YOU need to show to the world that you LOVE you and that nomatter what or when you get a guy you will continue loving you because at the end of the day it's you against the world and you need to show the world that you are still here with your head up high standing tall and your not giving up. There is someone out there for you i know it, BUT before GOD can put him in your life he needs to make sure that you feel confident enough to go out there and meet him and show him that you will help bring him up not down. God wants to see you flourish on your own before you try and flourish and nurture someone else.!!
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Wow,that was a wonderful piece of advice. Thank you.
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