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My daughter is a Junior in HS and she is dating a freshman. I really don't have a problem with it but most of her friends are freshman also and my husband does not like it at all! My husband thinks she should be hanging out with other teenagers her age with the same goals (looking at colleges, soccer, etc). I'm not so sure. I tend to think hubby is more concerned with the way it looks. I figure if she is happy and they are good kids then it's okay.
She says the kids her age are not nice. She tends to hang out with others where she can be the leader of the pack. I think she feels more confidence with the younger crowd.
My husband wants her to cut it off with this boy. She wants to go to prom with him. I'm thinking it's okay. What do you think?
I don't find a problem with her dating a freshman. Her hanging with younger kids is not to big of a problem, but you both have good points. Your husband just don't want her falling back and trying to stay behind to hang with her younger friends. He wants her to be able to look at the future so when she gets in college she won't be an outcast and she won't be talking to high schoolers but children her age. But you have a good point too. It's not too bad. It's not a bad thing to date someone younger. We did that in hs (my friends and I). Maybe just give her time. It seems like your daughter has a shy voice. That she likes giving her opinion and she wants people to listen to her. And that is probably why she talks to the younger children. They look up to her. Maybe you should sit her down and help her gain a voice. Therefore you and your husband will be okay with who she hangs with. Maybe ask her why she's so attracted to the younger kids. Most likeyly it's because they look up to her so try and tell her to involve herself in activities at the school that usually helps children get involved and give their voice out. Also with small things around the house let her voice her opinion so she can feel more comfortable with voicing her opinion and standing up towards people.
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I like the idea of letting her voice her opinion on things at home. She doesn't speak up for herself and I've told her many times she needs to be more confident. She is very pretty, smart and a great athlete. Not sure where her shyness came from.
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