Hi there Advicenators.
The last time I logged on here I was 21. Im almost 30 now. Wow I thought I was well put together at that time. I wasn’t. I was looking for validation in being right, or proving that I had the solutions to problems. I didn’t. It makes me think about all the times I went looking for answers online and who was on the other end of that answer. Was it someone like my 21 year old self who didn’t know anything? Be careful out there, friends, and I hope you get the answers you’re looking for.
-Kat
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I was doing laundry and the laundry facility is on the outaide of my apartment building. Some dude around my age was locked out if the building behind me and said "Hi" in the distance and I said Hi back. Then he scratched his his head and asked if I lived in the building and I said yes. So he asked if we wanted to go inside and hang out and I turned down his offer because I dont know him. Then he looked at me and said "ohh you have a boyfriend?" And i responded uhh yeah lol..
What was he thinking? Was he flirting? ... Or just a whacko? (link)
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What a strange encounter.
It sounds like he was flirting a little but also trying to get in the building maybe?
You may need a guy's opinion on this one. But maybe he just thought you were pretty or something and thought he would ask you to hang out. Hey, you never know if someone is going to turn you down unless you ask.
He sounds a little bit awkward, but he doesn't sound like a whacko. If he backed off when you said you had a boyfriend then at least he respects that.
It was probably a good idea to turn down the offer though, you never know what someone you don't know is capable of!
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