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Basically, im a 16 year old girl who one night decided to go to a party that my mom did not know about. I told her i was staying at a friends and ended up stranded, so i stayed at a boys house with a few of his football friends. I ended up getting really drunk and one of the boys, who i do not know, forced me onto the sofa, unbuttoned my trousers and fingered me against my will. I tried everything to get him off but i was too drunk so i started to cry, he then said if i tell everyone hes going to start rumours about me. What do i do?

Tell your parents. By far the best thing you can do. Either them or the police. Trust me. I've gone through something similar, and I made the mistake of not telling anyone. My friends knew, of course, but I couldn't tell my mom. And every day I wonder if the jerk has done something worse to someone else all because I was too young and too scared to tell someone. Just know that it's normal to be scared, but make sure you also know that this is not your fault. Don't be worried about the "rumors" he said he'd spread, because what he did to you is way worse then anything he could possibly say. And if you're too scared to tell your parents to their face, even write it in a letter to them. I'm sure they'll be more worried about your well-being then the fact that you were underage drinking. I really hope your okay, and I hope that you'll find a way to tell someone!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you! I went to the police because of you and it was the right thing!


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