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Q: My fiance will be leaving for Navy bootcamp in a little over a month. By the time he leaves we'll be married. But all I think about is how much I'm going to miss him. I know I should think about spending as much time as possible together but I'm a planner type of person. It gets to a point where I'm just really depressed. I don't know if you call it depression or not but he's not even gone yet and I'm already freaking out about it. I just want to know what I can do to fix this. I don't want to have to take any anti-depression pills so that's out of the question. I just don't know what to do. Thanks!
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Even though you are older than I and have been with your fiance longer than I have been with my boyfriend, we're in the same situation.
My boyfriend is leaving for the Navy in December and I am always thinking about how much I will miss him and how much I'll worry, but I agree with Melissa...
Do not worry!!! Focus on yourself. Do what makes you happy while he is gone, but make sure you write letters and talk in as many ways as possible to keep in touch. I know it's hard and you'll miss him like crazy, but he is doing something he loves and he is extremely lucky to have such a wonderful fiance that will stay with him even with his passions getting in the way of the relationship. Make sure to set a date along with him before he leaves and spend time with him, there doesn't need to be planning for that! Surprises are always nice :)
I hope I helped...
xoxox
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thanks! it's good to know that i'm not the only one in this boat. i think i'll surprise him with a picnic or something :)
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bio
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Hi! I'm Selina!
I've been through so much in my life, and these experiences have made me stronger... I love music, sunshine, and videogames.
I'm a pretty friendly, loving person and I'm here for anyone when they need it. I'm honest and I'm always open, so just inbox me!
Happiness is what I aim for.
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Gender: Female Location: Buffalo, New York Age: 16 Member Since: March 14, 2011 Answers: 46 Last Update: April 13, 2012 Visitors: 3940
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