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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
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So I've been dating this guy for about seven months but I've been wanting to take it reeeally slow because he's seventeen, gonna be a junior and I'm fifteen, gonna be a sophomore. The other day I let him finger me and it was the first thing I've done anything like that but he's pretty experienced though haha he's pretty much done everything including sex but he told me he'd be patient with me and he really has been. He's never pressured me or anythinng. Anyway that's not what the questions about. While it was happening, he had two fingers in and it felt fine I guess, I was a little uncomfortable. And he could kind of tell but then he started trying to get a third finger in and I was like ouchh, like it reallyyy hurt. so he stopped and was kind of like "that hurts?? really??" not in a mean way, but suprised. He kind of chuckled a little bit too. And then we just kept kissing and didn't talk about it. I'm not bothered but I'm confused. Is that not normal? Like are most girls able to get more? I don't reallyy wanna bring it up with him haha and if thats abnormal should I be concerned?

nooo. youre not experienced. which is not a bad thing, trust me.
it hurt because you're tight. you havent had anything in there, except maybe tampons [if you use them] so its normal that it would hurt. your fine. one finger first would probably be best, then two, and then later on three.
he was also probably surprised because all of the girls he has been with have been more expereinced [dont be ashamed of your innocence, its super normal, and youre still young. im the same way haha, but im 18]
you should not be concerned :]
i hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. good luck, xxo.

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