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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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I have a really hard time to get guys to like me. I flirt with them, but I don't know if they like the way I'm flirting, or maybe they don't like me at all. What should I do?

all guys like different things. its a matter of opinion, so you cant pin point what EVERY guy likes. but mostly, they like playful remarks and girls with a sense of humor. you also have to be confident. seriously, confidence is key.. its a huge turn on for guys.
if they like your flirting, then theyll flirt back. and youll know.
you should just keep flirting. everyone flirts differently, so dont worry about what anyone else thinks, and just go with the flow. if you think about it too much, itll make you even more nervous, and less confident. you have to just be yourself.. no matter how cliche that sounds. boys like natural girls.
but dont act stupid or dumb around guys. this isnt flirty or attractive whatsoever. theyll just think your ditzy and craving attention 24/7.. which is not a turn on for guys at all.
im sure youre flirting just fine. theres really no right way to flirt. trust me. you have your own style :] im sure. so just be confident and be you.
good luck, have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me; hope i helped ! xxo.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!! A lot of girls tell different things, but they've never really told me to be myself. You're the best!

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