sunshine1232's advice column

Ok there are these 2 guys. One is my ex's best friend that I'm not so close with, but I'm getting closer with now, and another is like my best friend and I've known him for a few years, we've been like brother/sister close.

Not too long ago I realized how much I like that guy that I've known for so long. I like him a lott and I'm quite comfortable around him. He lives closer to me than the other guy but I don't hang out with him outside of school. He really makes me feel incredible though.

The other guy I'm talking about lives a little farther but I sneak him over my house every few nights. We are dating right now and we've already had sex a few times. He's been on home detention for a while and he's going to jdc(juvenile detention center) this friday because he failed his drug test. He keeps violating his home detention but is promising he's getting off for me. To get off he'd have to pass his drug test. Marijuana is still in his system. Even when he gets off he's going to get right back into smoking and partying all the time though, I asked him.

Sorry this is long but I've got a little heartache problem.
It's summer break right now and the guy on home detention is the one I'm going to be hanging out with.. and I honestly think I need more time to get comfortable with him.. I don't feel on his level.
I really wish I could see the other guy.. he makes me really happy... He's half puerto rican/half dominican and I'm this little white guy. I'm pretty positive he likes me. I've been told and he acts like it.

What would you do? See if things get better with the guy I'm going out with or wait for school to come along to get closer to the other guy?
I've also done similar things the guy I'm dating has done... and the other guy is so innocent to that stuff. I don't really know what to think.

I think you should stay with your boyfriend and see if things get better with him you shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly you should wait and see what happens first there's a possiblity that things could change you never know anything can happen i think you should believe your boyfriend when he promised you he'd stop with the drugs he wouldn't of said it if he didn't mean it and it wasn't true support your boyfriend seeing as he's going to the detention center and is going through a tough time right now it's not easy he needs your support and for you to be there for him i don't know when school
starts for you but i'm assuming it's not for a while so you'd probably have to wait a while to get closer to the other boy it's better to stay with your current boyfriend seeing as your already in a relationship ultimately in the end it's your decision and choice of what you'd like to do so do what makes you happy(:

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much =]. He's going to jdc today for a week. I found out something last night that I need to talk to him about.. but I have to wait a week now. Guys are so stressful.

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