sunshine1232's advice column

i'm a girl, 16. i have a friend, her name is Alexis, but lets call her "LEXIS" for short. Ok, so Lexis has been dateing this guy named Jim for about 4 and a 1/2 months. Well yesterday she found out that he's... he's not the sharpest tool in the shead. she found out that he get's a check for $700 dollars a month. Now she's not a gold digger, not a gold digger at all, she's more of a image person. so last night she called me and told me she was going to break up with him because, she "cant't be seen wit a slow person." I thought that was mean of her but befor i could tell her what i thought her uncle was calling and we hung up. So i talked to my other friend and 50% said that her reason for breaking up with him is shallow and the other 50% said that it was not.

my question is, is she shallow for breaking up with him for that reason, or is that a good reason to break up with a person?

Yes i do think she's shallow for saying what she did she could of worded it differently so it didn't sound so harsh or could of even avoided it entirely i agree with your friend that her reason for breaking up with him is shallow it almost seems
like she's making fun of people with disablities and
who are indeed slow i don't know the whole situation
but calling him slow just because he gets a check doesn't make sense she could of thought before she spoke so yes i think that she is shallow & no i don't think that's not a good enough
reason to break up someone(:

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(Rating: 5) i tottaly agree with you. thank you for your advice

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