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Hello,
I am a male (18) and I've been having sex with my girlfriend for five months now. As the title says my girlfriend has trouble cumming. I am not sure why this is, the past five months she has never had an orgasm. I can however give her a clitorial orgasm, but not a vaginal one. I haven't yet tried fingering her to that point and she refuses to finger herself.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to make her get her orgasm. She is really getting frustrated during sex, she actually gets to the point when the orgasm should come, "but then everything disappears" she says. These frustrations occur multiple times during sex, followed by an emotional breakdown(on her side).
I real feel bad about not being able to give her an orgasm, so please, are there any tricks/tips/suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
Sometimes, it just will not happen. My girlfriend has never had one either, and we've been together for over 5 years. No one could make her do it before, and she can't do it herself either. Oral stimulation brings one up pretty quickly, so we've just adjusted our sex style. She comes, I come, everybody wins. It's just not at the same time.
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Thanks, but she can actually come by stimulating herself, and gets very close when I do it. Maybe we should keep trying, and by the way, I really suck at oral stimulation xD
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