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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
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So , I had this best friend for four years. All of a sudden she stopped talking to me. She does this sometimes but never this long. It's been since about January or February since we've talked. I don't understand why she doesn't talk to me. Maybe because I found other best friends. I don't know. What should I do ?

a lot of girls get jealous, especially when they have a best friend who they think has the potential to have "other friends"
its sort of like a possesive thing, she always wants you to NEED her friendship and then they get kind of jealous. this has happened to me before, and she actually still doesnt talk to me, but i did find out why she does what she does.
what you should do is let her come to you. if you go to her, she'll try to bluntly or sneakily make you ditch your new best friends. and what she is doing [not talking to you] is NOT being a "best friend" its being an immature little girl who cant stand that YOU have actual REAL friends. its not right that she is doing this to you, and you just have to let it go. people change, just like the seasons change. and your new best friends havent ditched you, so talk to them about this and what is happening with your "best friend" that hasnt talked to you since january. if she really was your best friend, she wouldnt have stopped talking to you.
you should just let it go for now. if you talk to her, drama might start, and i know that drama is NOT fun at all. just have a good time with your new friends and let things be :] since shes done this before for no reason, then it will keep on happening no matter what you do. talking wont help, and she cant be reasoned with at this point. its been a very long time since youve both talked and if she wanted to talk to you or be your friend, then she would.
you have people who love you and care about you and will ALWAYS be there for you. so unless she talks to you, ignore it. things will work out on their own, i promise :]
good luck ! have fun with your life and just be you. you didnt do ANYTHING wrong, so dont worry. none of this is your fault. hope i helped, if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] xxo.

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