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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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Okay so in the middle of january i met this boy & we started talking he told me 1 week nd a half later that he liked me & i told him i liked him too. We decided too mess around but not tell anyone because he & my friend went out like 2 yrs ago & i went out with his friend like 2 yrs ago also. Anyways about 9 days later he stopped talking too me (he doesn't go too my school but he knows a lot of people in it). I always wondered wat was tht reason but i never even bothered my days were horrible without him! 2 days later after he stopped talking too me he got a girlfriend. He stopped talking too me the 28th & got a girlfriend the 31st. About 1 week later he wrote too me on aim saying how much he missed me & he loved me & the reason he stopped talking too me was because he heard i liked someone else (but i didn't)!. We only talked for 1 day & Then we stop talking again. That saturday we got into this huge argument where he told me i could love whoever i want & he didn't care what i did anymore & a bunch of things. Then that tuesday he wrote too me saying how much he really missed me (he broke up with his girl) & he loved me & how he wanted me too be his. I fell for it. We startd talking all luvy dubby & then next tuesday we got into this big argument & too be honest i don't even know what i did wrong. & then he canceled our plans on friday & thursday. Yesterday february 17 i decided too go on his ex's aim wich is my friend. Nd i said hey & he responded was good baby & then he goes i regret saying what i said too you the day i got mad at you. That makes me think they had something going on again! Now too the conclusion off this he said soo many nice things idk what too do. I think he's playing with my heart but then i don't want him too be playing with my heart. HELP! Please ! & thanks .

wow. im so sorry hes doing this to you, but hun, he IS playing with your heart AND your emotions. this is NOT healthy.
he is most definetley 100% a playaa.
you deserve 58607080 times better than him. hes talking to other girls, getting girlfriends, and using you and stringing you along "just in case" no one else wants him. you're pretty much his "back-up plan" and he is honestly the biggest jerk for doing that to you.
and i know that he said alot of nice things to you, but it was only to keep you hanging on. h is one of those boys who will get a reputation for being "un-dateable" since he is the bigest a-hole ever.
honestly, move on. there are soooo many other guys out there who will appreciate you and love you and treat you the way you whould be treated, and there are going to be boys out there who wont toy with your emotions. i know it doesnt seem like it now, but you will be SOOOO much happier in the long run if you just completely stop talking to him. delte him off of everything; ex him out of your life.. you dont want to fall back into his trap, hes obviously good at it. and you already know that hes being shandy and talking to his exes and such behind your back. you dont need the drama or the lies. show him that youre smart and strong.. show him who you are. you dont need him. i would definetly tell him that youre done with his games, and youre gone. one up him. if he can take you on an emotional roller coaster, then give him one too.
also, ask your friend [the ex] if theyve been talking and all of that.. just to see what she says. then go from there.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] just keep being awesome. xxo.

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(Rating: 5) YOUR AWESOMEEE !! but then thursday he hit me up & hes like "look i love u but ur just too young for me" im 14 nd hes 16 -__--; & then he has diffrent girls on his away saying he loves them.. so w.e im done with him for sure!
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