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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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Hello, I am 16, and i am so sick of my life i really am. So far i ahve llost alot of my close friends,well what i thought was my best friends. They all left because well im not sure really.But have you ever just wanted to give up? yeh thats what i want to do really.give up. not sure what to do anymore. this life that everyone is talkinga about,this great life,is nothing but a lie.

:/ i know its so cliche to say that "i know how you feel" but i really do. i cant tell you how many times i have just wanted to give up..
but im glad i didnt.
everything ive been through, the people ive lost along the way.. the things ive gained, its all worth it in the long run. it makes you strong and it makes you who you are right now. and you might be sick of it at the moment, but you wont be for long.
theres a quote that really helped me look forward to my future when i was going through some rough times.. "Be strong now, 'cause things will get better. It may be stormy now, but it can't rain forever."
its so true. you just have to know that you'll get past this and that what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. sometimes life is about growing as a person and realizing that the people you thought you knew were only strangers and that understanding why people do what they do isnt as important as understanding that its just who they are.
and im not gonna tell you that everyone has this picture perfect great life, but its not a lie. you have a great life.. but right now its not as great as it could be. when you get knocked down you just have to get up again, dont let anyone ever bring you down. i know that you dont know what to do, but im telling you that you should either talk to your "best friends" and ask them what you did to make them leave or just forget about them. theyre not the only people on the earth.. it took me a while to realize that people are people. their true colors will eventually surface. you can meet new people and make new friends every day of your life. you're only 16.. you cant give up now; i know you have it in you to hold your head up high and keep going. you have your whole life ahead of you. just think of the oppurtunities that are awaiting you. you cant let these people make you think that youre not worth anything, because you are worth something. youre worth alot. you have your family who loves you and cares about you and the ability to achieve anything and to be great :]
so do what you do best and show them what youre made of. youre an awesome person; be who you are. good luck, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, im always here. xxo.

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(Rating: 5) thank you for takeing the time to write all this.I really apericiate it. :)
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