hey girl
ah im in the same situation lol. my husband doesnt want one right now either and its like you wish he did....
well unless it happens i really dont think he'll actually say he'll be ready unless its like years & years from now. men at our age have a lot of other things they want to do & other things they want to spend their money on. like for example, my husband is a car freak & says if we have a baby right now he wont be able to pursue his hobby as much because of the expenses a baby comes with. theres nothing we can really say to them that will convince them this early in life unless you have one now, a baby wont be on their minds.
but dont let yourself down, the baby will come when he/she is ready :) and take this time to enjoy not having a baby at the moment because, well, you know how difficult it will be once a baby is added into your life. so yeah hun do things with your husband, spend time with him, do different things. have fun while you can lol.
hope i helped! :)

thanks that really helped me feel better its nice to know i'm not alone

Hello my name is Gina. I'm 21-years-old
and would love to help anyone out.
A little about me: I've been married since I was 18 and have been to hell and back to keep this marriage together. But the only thing that has truely kept us together is our love....and a LOT of work. We have a son who is just a few months old whom I LOVE SO MUCH!

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