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I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with him, yes, he apologized like any guy would but things escalated and ended so wrong, we got so mad at eachother that i just started crying so hard. he said he wanted to go to bed but i wanted to keep talking until he said isnt he allowed to leave until i was satisfied with this conversation. so i got so mad i just texted back "BYE!" and he didnt even answer back. so i have 2 questions: some of my friends think he likes me and that i was the reason he went, for me. do you think thats true? and, did i lose him for good, if so how do i get him back? this whole thing was over a stupid girl! i regret ever opening my mouth but i thought i should have told him how i felt seeming as we tell eachother everything and we've been best friends since 3rd grade. any help, please.. im desperate.
I don't think you've lost him give him some space
for a while then once you think your ready try texting him and aplogize yes i do think that he came to the dance for you since he doesn't have any feeling's for the other girl you shouldn't feel jealous she forced him to dance with her he had no choice apologizing would be a start to possiblity getting him back again you could say your sorry for what you said and hope that the two of you could move on and maybe hang out together start over see where the conversation goes give him the benefit of the doubt he deserves another chance(:
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, friend. this helped me alot to realize she's just a girl and he does deserve another chance. Thanks again for your time.