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" If you like someone, just go for it."Hey, i'm April. I'm 17 and live in Indiana. On September 2nd 2009 I had mt lovely daughter Avril Jane. Being a mom is not as hard as everyone always says it is. I have been dating my wonderful boyfrendd Jarrod since Sept. 28, 2008. I'm pretty relaxed and I love to help people!
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Is it horrible for me to hate my sister?
We have never really gotten along before. I am 21 and she is 19. We have both had very different up bringings. I was raised by my grandparents and she was raised by my mother.
She is a very attention seeking person and will do what others tell her or do or say things to fit in a crowd.. She doesn't work, throws in all her jobs because she doesn't want to work.
She has very minor 'operations' (its just like having a pap smear) and writes it all over face book for everyone to see. She never even finished school.
where as I, I have always worked since I finished year 12. In good jobs to, first in a lawyers office now in a doctors surgery. I have also studied through TAFE.
My grandfather who raised me passed away suddenly in August. He was only 58 and was never sick before, he suffered from a stroke and was in a coma for 30days before passing.
Now the problem is my sister is putting all over face book that she 'misses and loves her poppy' Um hello... she never had anything to do with him for 4 years!!! Every time our parents told her she had to come to nanna and pops house she would make herself vomit so she didn't have to go.
She's never really had anything to do with me before either. This isn't the only things that are contributing to my feelings of hate towards her.
Should I confront her and tell her that I wont don't want anything to do with her anymore and that she should stop writing things about my pop whom she's had nothing to do with for 4 years? Other wise i'm going to end up doing something childish that I will regret!
Thank you
First off, congrats for finishing school and getting a good job!
If I was you I would confront her. Keeping things inside just makes it worse because the anger builds up until you pop. Tell her how you feel. If anything YOU should be the one missing him since he and your grandmother raised you. Tell her it hurts you to see the lies she's telling people about her missing her grandpa. She's probably begging for attention because she's lonely, but that is her own fault. She could have finished school, and made friends, and found a decent job to keep her happy; but she chose not to.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. Someone agrees. I know it may sound selfish but I just can't deal with her anymore! Thanks again! :)