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Well, I'm shy.I really want to get out of being shy! I've been this way for as long as i can remember. Now I'm not like, shy shy, like one of those people who hides in a corner and doesnt talk to anyone, but I'm the kind of shy that keeps me from being overactive. I'm hyper and honestly, perverted, at times. I like being hyper but it only lasts for a little while then I go straight back into my shell. I also want to be less shy with my boyfriend and be able to actually have fun with him..any tips? (link)
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Well,
It isn't always bad to be shy. Sometimes people talk too much, and that isn't all that great either. But the good news is that you can be less shy! :)
Do you ever feel like there are awkward silences? You can talk about absolutely anything, think about it, the world is filled with things to talk about. When meeting someone new you start talking about something in common like the class you are in, or the music you like. Did something funny or interesting happen to you today? Feel free to share! Share your laughter or your despair. Sometimes life seems at a low point, and in that case you should talk to someone about your feelings.
I feel as you do sometimes: shy. Sometimes it's because I don't feel one hundred percent confident in myself and I get scared. But all it is is fear. And I'm guessing you are a teenager like me. The thing I've realized is that life isn't always going to feel great all the time. Sometimes we get hurt and don't feel that great about ourselves. But there's a whole world out there!
Talk to your boyfriend about your day, about your life, hobbies, whatever you feel like saying :). And be spontaneous! Go somewhere fun! Do something you haven't done before. My last relationship failed mostly because I didn't know how I was supposed to act. I didn't realize all that time that all I needed to do was be me, and be fun. Fear overtakes us. But it won't overtake you anymore, because you want to change it and you will. Talk, listen, and forget about what others think. You'll soon find yourself opening up. Take care
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Wow O_o that helped a lot! Thank you :]!!
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