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Q: I have a really awesome guy best friend who is like a big brother figure for me. He is like my guide, he always waits for me in every class and after school, he makes sure I'm alright, and he spends his free time with me... people always comment on how inseparable we are. Lately, he's been very attached and I get confused. My boyfriend and I are currently on stage where we're unsure about where we stand at the moment. Because he was away for few weeks and when he came back, I realized how I just felt much more comfortable with my best friend than with him. During the time my boyfriend was away, my best friend acted as if taking over his place; he'd do things my boyfriend would do for me [except all the hugs and holding hands etc] My best girlfriend starts worrying now, she thinks he has feelings for me,,, and since I've always prioritized my friendship over romantic relationship, she's afraid I'll make bad move... and now I've been dreaming about my best friend instead of my boyfriend.. and I am confused now... I don't even know to whom my loyalty and love are with at the moment... but I know that if my best friend loves me, then I'll leave my boyfriend and try to give him my heart. because I'm willing to do anything for my best friend... but then again I'm scared... what if he really has feelings for me? what if I do have feelings for him too? Am I really ready to leave my good relationship for this if it really is there? Because if I make a bad move, things won't go well since we all will end up in same area for college...
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Hey =)
Well before you do anything with your best friend, figure out where you and your boyfriend stand. Remember that you are still in a relationship no matter what guy, close or not, you still have a boyfriend. You dont wanna end up doing something you may regret, so the smartest thing to do now is figure out what you and your boyfriend want to do and how you guys feel. Depending on what you guys figure out, will then let you know what your next move should be.
If you still feel confused about your friend after, then be honest about it. Tell your friend how you feel, if you dont you may end up with all these unanswered questions and confused about your current relationship. But dont hurt or upset your boyfriend in the process.
Hope i helped and good luck!
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Thank you so much =) you really helped =)
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Hello my name is Gina. I'm 21-years-old
and would love to help anyone out.
A little about me: I've been married since I was 18 and have been to hell and back to keep this marriage together. But the only thing that has truely kept us together is our love....and a LOT of work. We have a son who is just a few months old whom I LOVE SO MUCH!
I am honest & blunt in my advice giving, and will probably tell you what you dont wanna hear.....Life isn't easy folks.
I look forward to helping anyone who needs it so please, ask away!
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Gender: Female Age: 20 Member Since: November 25, 2009 Answers: 43 Last Update: April 12, 2011 Visitors: 4047
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