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My boyfriend says he wants space, yet he has been calling me and texting me an we used to live together so when he needs something he texts me an calls me to come over my parents house to get it, like the slightest thing like today his trimmer and to show me his new dog, like the whenever i ask him or other people ask him what we arehe says he doesnt know yet he needs time & space, okayyy so why if you need time & space do u keep calling me and texting me an then why would he want me to tell him what i thought of this new dog he got? im so confused please i need advice
The info I am given is that you are 18, so I'll assume that this is correct, and your boyfriend is the same age. Having once been a 18 year old boy, and being the inherit pessimist I am, as well as having been a terrible boyfriend in the past, I have come to what I believe to be the most likely conclusion.
Your "boyfriend" is cheating on you.
Allow me to explain. "Time and space" is his way of saying "I've been having luck with other girls and I don't want you around when they're here." Him texting and calling and wanting you around is his way of saying "I struck out today but I don't want to be alone so please come to me."
How can you confirm? When you notice he's not trying to contact you at all, try and contact him. He'll probably shoot you down. Now, I could be terribly wrong; you know him a lot better than I do. But I know how guys his age think sometimes, and I used to do the same thing. The fact that you used to live together only helps solidify my reasoning. After living with my girlfriend and subsequently moving out, I would seek out other girls, but use my ex as a last resort to keep from being alone. It's sad and pathetic, and I'm glad I'm past that stage, but I'm not the only one who has been there.
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My Boyfriend is 22 and I am 20 for that matter. No he is not cheating, we are having a hard time right now being we live together an he get's stressed out with space, but he is not cheating I know him better than that we have bills together/accounts...etc & hes been home every night. Not to be a bitch but haha I am def not some little 18yr old with no brains.
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