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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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Remember me and my situation??...
Well the excitement of our reunion has died down and now our old problems have surfaced once again. Remember the whole me feeling ignored thing? Its happening again. Shocker *sarcasm*. He always would rather be with his friends than me. I tired of bringing it up over and over again I refuse to beg to some time with him. You think after 9 months of me complaining and talking to him about the same thing that he'd at least try but he doesn't. I love him I really do but I think my words continue to fall upon his deaf ears. Even other people notice he'd rather be with his friends than me, I'm so frustrated ugh DX
Hey Keri :] !
Long time, no talk. hahaa.
Okay so, I know you love him. I love my boyfriend too, but sometimes, even though you love a person, you have to do what's right for YOU. And if after all of these months, he's not wanting to spend more time with you over his friends, then you need to let him go. The fact of the matter is, if you're in a relationship with somone, they should ALWAYS want to be with you over EVERYONE else. Because if you're in love ... then that's what it feels like.. Like you always want to be together.
I think you know that this relationship isn't working out. No matter how much you want it to, it's just not. and when other people start noticing that he would rather be with his firends than with you ... then you know it's going downhill fast. Why stick with him if you are so unhappy? You shouldn't have to put up with this. You're his GIRLFRIEND, you should be the FIRST person he wants to hang out with, not the last. If he's ot trying, why should you?
I think you've given him more than enough chances and you have put in SO MUCH effort and he has given you barely any effort at all. You are a GREAT person and you deserve a great guy who wants to be with you and doesn't take you for granted. You have a right to be frustrated, but I honestly think you need to find someone else who is worthy of you. Even though you love him, and probably always will ... it doesn't mean you can't find someone else to fall in love with, someone who will treat you 25869 times better than your current boyfriend, who in my opinion, doesnt deserve you.
There's not much else you can do at this point. You talk, he doesn't listen. and you shouldnt beg for his attention and you shouldnt beg for him to spend time with you. It's not right. You need to REALLY think about this. Do you want to be in this realtionship for another 9 months feeling alone and frustrated and not important ? or do you want to go out there and find someone else who will treat you the way you SHOULD be treated when in a relationship?
.. good luck ! have fun and hope i helped. :] if you need anything else, or you just wanna vent or talk, send me an inbox ! xxo.
(Rating: 5) You make so much sense and you always give me a lot to think about lol. Thanks.