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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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I had a really roller coaster sorta love story with this guy. He knew that I love him. I did a lot for him, even gave him a cake in class.
He let go of me for his friend. I was hurt.

I planned for a surprise on his birthday but now, I'm having second thoughts on even greeting him on his birthday. He explained to me that he le me go because he don't want to see me hurt anymore. He loves me enough to let me go.

Will i still prepare for his birthday??


Better question, will i still hang on for him??

I'm sorry that happened :[
But honestly ? Don't hang on for him. There are PLENTY of other guys out there who will WANT to be with you and love you like you deserve to be loved. I know it's hard to move on, but you have to for your own good. Let me be the one to tell you that it is NOT worth it waiting for someone who is NOT waiting for you too.
If I were you, I wouldn't do the surprise thing for his birthday, because you can leave that up to his "friend" to do. He let a great person like you go, so don't do antyhing special for him, or he might take it in a different way and will hurt you even more. I know you WANT to do this for him, but I don't think you should.
You can greet him on his birthday and stuff, but don't go out of your way for him. Always trust your gut instinct and follow your heart, I know you'll find a great guy who deserves you :] I promise you, you will.
good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, it'll get better. It's going to be hard to move on at first, but hang in there. I know you can do it :] ! xxo.

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